Who Are You?
This is one of life's most burning questions...well, at least it is for me. I am constantly on a quest to figure out who I am, because I really think it is important to know even if you don't always like what you find. What are the "things," and by that I just mean characteristics or personality traits, that make you who you are? How do you think you got that way? How have you changed over the past 2 years of high school? (Don't even try to tell me you haven't changed since you were a FRESHMEN!) Do you anticipate any big changes in the future? Do you like who you are? Have you always liked who you are? Do you even know? Talk a little bit about all of these things. (150-200 words/40pts)
posted by Bunje at 3/20/2007 07:57:00 PM
95 Comments:
Well in my opinion ever one should know to a certain degree who they really are. I think that every one has the same characteristics, they just show in different ways. Even though its only been two years of high school and i have two more years to go i can honestly say that I have matured more since freshman year.
In the future I think I want things to run more smoothly, so that I can really try and figure out who I am. I cant really say that i have always liked who i was because i never really do, and looking back on things i still don't but i do hope i can figure out who i really am.
i found who i am when i got to this school, cause you got to know who you are in this school or people will take advantage of you.i know who i am cause im not like anybody else i know in this world im my own unique person and i like that about myself, some people follow after other people and thats not me im me every day all day i dont change for nobody,cause i think the real me and just being myself is a sweet,caring but sometimes sarcatic human being that lives to smile just a lil bit everyday even if theres some tears in those smiles somedays.i have changed since i was a freshmen cause when i was younger i was such a b*&^% you would have no idea,then i saw how people got treated by people like me and i didnt like the outcome, so i try not to be mean only when i have to.i do anticipate big things in my future;such as college,the car im getting soon, and everything else thats going to happen in my life.i dont like who i am i Love who i am and wouldnt change for anybody in the world.No, when i was younger i hated who i was my looks, smile, personality i hated it all but then i started chaging and i wasnt that tall skinny girl anymore who acted like a boy i grew in my girl-self(if you pick up what im putting down). so i believe as an all around indivisoual i like who i am.
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I think the person who i am today wasnt the same as i was when i was a freshman. Last year it was all about my girlfriend and this year is all about sports. Last year i was just a little boy that didnt care about anything beside my girlfriend and school. I would leave my family just to hang out with her. I was just a shy boy when i was young as well until everything just fell into place for me. I loved who i was last year and how everything has changed. I used to care about everything and now i just dont care about anything besides football or baseball, my grades do come in but they stay the same for me.
I know who i am because i am no bobody except myself, I hope.i may have a few nicknames like "Jew", "Jew boy", or "Jorge Guadalupe Rodriguz Con Rica Lopez III" but i know i am Drayke Jacobs-Van-Tol and i am an awkward teenager that always does something stupid and i am fine with that. i dont try and act differently. I think its my cousin's fault because i lived with and my mom and aunt when i was 6 or 7 and he taught me alot of what i know now. In the past 2 years i havent changed a lot but i have become a little more outgoing and happier. I like who i am now especially because i am with the sexiest girl in the world. Tina keller. at this moment i don't have big plans for the future but i do plan on going to college. I am Drayke Jacobs-Van-Tol and I know who i am and i always will
i like my personity because i nice and i could be mean if i have to . but most of the time i a nice person . i been threw a lot of drama and all the drama i been threw made me the great person i am today. for example i dont like to get in peoples business. i dont like to start problems on less they start with me. i like to keep secert and i keep them to my self . i change alot since i was a freshmen in highschool. i started to think what im going to do for my self in the future . i love the way i am because i hate people that like to talk about other people and im not like that. i also like the way i am because i work and i try to do what i could to help people out .alot of people change and i one of them who change.my mom and dad are fighting to keep us and they are making me a my brother go threw a lot .i got sick of it already .now i just dont care about anything any more because of my parents.
I am a strong individual. Living life and being able to see different situations growing up is what made me this way. Experience is the best teacher and moulds every person differently depending on what they learn from the situation. I have a level of confidence in myself that holds me above a lot of people. I take care of myself and I think highly of who I am. A lot of people envy me because of how positive I am of myself. I love who I am and I wouldn’t change it for anyone. I am very outspoken and tell it how it is. Sometimes this makes people feel bad, but the truth hurts sometimes. I do not hurt people’s feelings intentionally. I fight for what I think is right. I have a big heart and try to keep an open mind. I steer away from peer pressure. Old people melt my heart and make me smile. I have high expectations of others. I care about my self image and appearance. I work hard to look my best, not always to impress others but to satisfy myself. I strongly believe what goes around, comes around and that everything happens for a reason. I always put God first. There is no definition of me. I am who I am and live with my own sense of swagger.
Who I am is a good question, and I have thought about it all my life. Today, I’m a responsible young lady, who people can depend on no matter what the issue is, I’m somewhat smart, strong mentally, honest, always speak my mind the way I feel without caring what anyone thinks, I’m a unique person, I’m somewhat of a neat freak, I’m funny, I love trying new things, I’m always respectful to others, beautiful inside and out, I’m brave when it comes to anything but sensitive when it comes to my emotions, I love those who are close to me, I am a strong believer, who has faith to God, I have pride to my race (Viva Cuba y El Salvador), my sex (a young strong woman), and where I’m from (MIA For Life). These are some of the
traits describe who I am today. The only reason I change was because I moved to New Jersey and it was a fresh start for me, it was as if all the stuff that happen to me last year was left in Florida. The day before I moved my best friend told me “…Manny to be honest you don’t have a future out here, your not going anywhere in life if you stay in this area, at less one of us would have a good life, promise your going to be good and you going to change for the better because ma everything happens for a reason…” she had a point and the day I moved out here I start praying and asking god to forgive all my sins. When I start school I promise myself that I was going to be good in school and stop doing what I did last year. In the past two years I learn how to respect myself and others, I learn that people make mistakes and its okay as long as if your willing to do better. I had fun in my freshmen year but I did sin. Now, my sophomore year is more about trying to do good and make up for the sins I have done. In future if I keep up what I am doing now, I would hopefully be able to support myself and my family, I would have a good, healthy, and happy life, I hope to become closer to God and those who I care for the most. I love the way I am and even throw I did wrong in the past that was who I was and without that I wont be the person I am today.
When I am in school and when I am with my friends I am like 2 different people. in school i don’t really talk that much i do my work and i follow the rules, and when I am with my friends its like I am not the same person at all i am always talking it seems like you cant get me to shut up. so in school i am pretty shy and quiet and with my friends i am very loud and out going. Over the school year and summer i think that i haven’t really made that many changes but the changes that i have made are big ones, i wouldn’t really say anything if one of my friends were talking about another one of my friends, one of the reasons I am not friends with who i thought was my best friend because i realize that she was 2 face she would talk about her friends to me and then talk about me to her friends. if someone ever talks about one of my friends to me i say something right away and i tell them not to talk about them any more. my mom has always told me since i was a little girl to believe half of what you see and nothing of what you here, and I am going to stick to that. as far as i know i like who i am right now, even tough i don’t really know who i am. i try not to let gossip get the best of me. i know that i sometimes disappoint my parents and myself but as long i try to fix my mistakes and not do it again then that makes them happy.
I think i always knew who i was until this year i always was a short, blond hair, blue eyed hunk of eye candy. Know my hair is brown i grew 7 inches and i feel sine a big loss of my best former best friend i have changed for the best. I guess that makes me a non short, brown haired, blue eyed, hunk of eye candy. And ive always liked who i was and i would never change who i was or what i did because now i feel im smarter and more honset about life which will help my future.
The things that define you are characteristics that are not necassarily unique to you. But sometimes traits or old habits that are hard to break out of, turn into characteristics and these are the characteristics that are unique to you.For example, I tend to argue with people over dumb stuff because I simply hate to be wrong, I feel like I always have to prove my point if anyrhing. This went from being a trait to a characteristic to me.
As for me, I don't know how I got my specific traits or how I became " the way I am ". I think my tendency to argue with people stemmed from frustration. Whenever I got into a conversation with someone and I couldn't find the words to get my point across, I would get frustrated and end the conversation. As a result of that, when consequences came as a result of this or when the same topic came up again, I would get mad again like the first time. This is when I would start to argue with people to try to make them see things my way and all the pent up aggravation would come out.
I have to say that I have changed, not only from my freshman year, but from last month or even yesterday, people constanly live and learn. I try not to argue if I can't prove my point. I leave it alone, think about it, and come back to settle the issue later when I've cooled down and had time to analyze my main points.
In the future, I know i will change just as I have in the past because there is always room for a person to grow. I like who I am now because it is all I know. As of right now I am the best person I can be, because I won't get any more tools to inprove myself until later.I can say that I've always liked who I am.
with my personality it changes from time to time. what i mean by this is that it depends on who im around. like with some of my friends i can act like wild and crazy and have a fun time but with others i have be more layed back and kind of like confide myself in some ways. like my real personality is wild crazy and up to anything. im not really scared of anything at all. i think i got this way by just being around certain people. but mostly my brother i think is how i got this way because we act just alike and with me being around him all the time. i havent changed the last few years i have been in high school. everything as stayed the same about me. i dont think im goin to change anything in the future. i actually do like who i am and i always have. i like everything about me but sometimes my attitude can get me in trouble but oh well i still like it because then some people leave me alone and dont bother me anymore.
my personality traits is that i always keep it real when i'm around my friends or not. everyone knows jojo as a out-going, fun, funny, and a happy person all the time.but i have to agree that i have change from the past 2 to 3 years that has went by. i have mature and become more responsbily for my actions.I do like the young lady that i'm becoming to be and i will love to see more change in myself and the things that i do. even though some people don't know who they are and what they want to become in the future. well i do and i will always be myself no matter what.
ME,
Who Am I is a very good question that i sometimes ask myself when things go wrong. I guess now that i am older i can say that i am someone who is loving and caring and cares about what people think about me. Over the years of my life i always cared about how people looked at me and how they judge me wheter i was pretty enough, did i fit in enough and did i dress good enough for them. The bad thing about this is the more i had tried the more i realized i was getting hurt by boys and girls. Years went on and i began to just change i used to be the one bringing home all A's and started bring home A's , B's C's. Then i began to realize that nothing i was doing was helping in any way but hurting more then i could imagine. As i began to grow up i began worrying about my self doin things that i though was right for me and figuring out what did i really want to be and who i really wanted to be. it had took me a while to figure out but i finally did and i realize that i was a good person and i don't have to prove that to no body. The more i think about it it seems the more i have grown up and moved up in my grade i have learned that i have to be my self and if no body loves me i will be good with that as long as i know that i love me. Its weird now because back then all i cared about is what people thought of me but know i dn't care because i don't need anyone to tell me they like me or how i dress its all what i think about my self. During my 10th grade year i just want to thank Miss.Bunje because you have shown me alot things i never thought was true about me i mean yeah we had our ups and downs but you knew how to me me feel good when i was in the worse part of myb life and thought i would go back to my old ways. I want to thank just my true friends the ones who have been their for me all the time and never did me wrong because ya'll have mad my life great and will make the rest of my high school years the best years of my life.
me, my personality .. has changed tremedously . and i think change plays a part in that too. and i know when i entered high school i've changed , as to who i was in middle school along with almost everyone else . Before i never thought so much on one topic . like , now i try and think before i act . because i learned that in high school if you make a mistake everyone finds out about it . so , now i do that . i don't trust most people . as of right now , i'm trying to figure out who i really am . and how people see me in school isn't really who i am . and thats what repuations do to you . but, i want to change for sure . i want to not take what everyone says to heart . i want to be in a good mood all the time, instead of sometimes . the way people view me in school is completely wrong , so i want to change some of my actions . And i want to start living each day , like it's my last .
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I am an individual. Ive grown up alot from be a freshmen. Ive changed in good and bad ways. When im around my friends everyone knows me as a fun person but i know when its time to get serious and stop joking around. But it all depends on who i am around. Back in middle school i never really liked who i was even as a freshmen i didnt but this year alot changed and got better.
I thinks some of the characteristics that make me who i am is tha fact the im a NBA (natural born athlet). Also my dedication to everything i do from sports to school. I deffenitly have matured alot since freshmen year, i think i've changed my whole out look on life since fresmen year. I deffinitly anticipate big changes in the future, college, college recruits, and just being in the real world. I love who i am, i mean what not to like about being a guido. When i was little i din't like myself to much because i had some family problem when i was younger. Now it all over and its all good. itte im out like a fat chick in doge ball
peace bunje
I think that over the past two years of high school I have changed for the good and also the bad, but who hasnt't? I've transformed from a shy, sheltered girl to a wise and matured young lady. I have definately been exposed to a completely different way of life throughout highschool so far. I've discovered who and what i want to be and the type of people that I want to surround myself with. As a sophmore in high school, it would be ridiculous to say that I have found and established who I will be for the rest of my life. Their are still mistakes to learn from, people to meet, and places to go. I think i can honestly say, though, that i am happy with the person that i am right now. I know that I am on my way to becoming the person that I think i will need to become to benefit me the most. It's not like you can choose who you are, where your from, or what you look like, but you can certainly build stronger character and wisdom from the experiences. I have not always loved myself, but i surely never hated myself either. I know that my mistakes are what create my fate and help me become the person that I hope to someday become.
well i havent changed that much. i must say that ive always been that nice guy with the more shy personality. over the last few years im still the same ince guy from back then but ive grew to loosen up a bit. yeah, making new friends will do that to ya. also over the years ive grown more mature with myself, not in the way that your thinking but in the way that i know what im doing now and not acting before i think. Ive mostly matured in that area by learning from my past mistakes and problems that ive had. even though ive changed a little from the past few years ill always be the same johnforce
Me, Personally I am constantly on the journey to find myself. My mother always told me that I am the true Gemini and because of this it's been hard to that. One day you will see me talking and having a good ol' time and the next I will put something in my head that will make me act differently it's really weird...LOL. Anyway life is hard and it's either people are going to love you or they will hate you, It's like rolling dice,but for me it's like 10 times worse mainly because I am so different which is one of my best characteristics. Whether it's from the way my hair is styled, to my fashion sense, or the way I act around other people. I'm not your usual choice nor do I lend out my liking or my name to anthing if I really don't care that much. So most of the time it is hard to find myself but when it gets fun they are the best days that I ever get.
Some of the things that make me who i am, are most of the time i am an upbeat person. I look at the bad things that could happen in a situation, even though it probably won't happen. I got that way because my family is normally very happy, and the thing about always thinking of the bad things that could happen is from my mother because all of my life she did it, and everytime she did i would always ask her "mom why do you always think about the bad things that could happen" and she said she doesn't know why. And i guess i just picked it up. The things that changed in the last two years is I found the LOVE OF MY LIFE and she matters the most to me now. There is one big change that i hope comes upon me, and that is for me to go to college, and to graduate. Yes I always liked who I was because i thought if you didn't like me for me than, forget you.
The journey to find one's true self is a complex and difficult one. Through our whole lives we are brought up & raised around certain beliefs & lifestlye traits that we ourselves adopt many of them. Yet, we ultimately find that that may not be, & most likely isnt, really us. As a adolescent, it isnt always easy to figure out who you are. By this point in my life, I cannot say that I know who I am entirely, but I've gotten a pretty good sense. I changed alot since freshman year; starting at this new school in a new state in sept. 2005 was very nerve-racking; I knew noone & became pretty shy & reserved, very opposite of me. I can say that I have matured since then, becoming much more social & outgoing & better w/ people, like I used to be. I've found that I have some good qualities, as well as some flaws. I am ultimately a person who can be either nice or rude. I feel pretty comfortorable with myself, even thought I often dont like what I see.
In the end, even when we're adults, we may not be sure who we are, hell, sometimes that takes decades, & although you may not always like it, its good to see youself & know who you are...
Welll me of course i am a really nice person i am caring and i am very respectful.But when it comes to being disrespected i can be disrespectful..I got this way because my parents raised me good.They always told me to respect people in order to be respested.In the last two years i have changed because i have realized that i am getting to the point of being an individual and hve to succeed in life.... I have to set goals for myself..I have become an older person by the way that i have been actin.....Peeaaacccceee.
I am a nice person I care and have a sense of humor. I am respectful. It got that way because it did. Two years ago I did not care much about school. I do now that's because I decided that I should do well in school. I care more about things in the world. I have changed a little since I was a freshman. Not that much though. I have changed a lot since I come here from Davies and Hess. I like who I am. I have not always for unknown reasons. But I got over it and became positive about myself and life
I am a nice person I care and have a sense of humor. I am respectful. It got that way because it did. Two years ago I did not care much about school. I do now that's because I decided that I should do well in school. I care more about things in the world. I have changed a little since I was a freshman. Not that much though. I have changed a lot since I come here from Davies and Hess. I like who I am. I have not always for unknown reasons. But I got over it and became positive about myself and life
Im constantly trying to figure out who i am. I mean i know but sometimes i think i might need to change a little bit more. Characrteristics of myslef are that im honest, and i always say how i feel. I got these characteristics becsuase at one point i had so many emotions bottled up inside of me i just let it all oput one day and i felt better . So now i just say how i feel when i need too.
Over the past two years i have changed alot. I use to open up to ppl and trust them. Now I dont trust too many people. I use to make certain people my priorities when i was just an option to them. Now I know who i need in my life and that is that. IN the future I think i will saty the same in most ways I will still be a sort of independent person, and hopefully still honest. And true to who I am.
I am what i am and I am what I choose to be so I guess I like who I am. Ive messed up in the past but there are no regrets Ive been dissapointed in myslef but i never disliked who i was .
If I could tell someone who I am I would say im a caring, loving, appriciative, stubborn at times, and nice person. I think I got this way just by learing from other people and past expierences. I don’t think I’ve changed that much since freshman year. I think im a little more mature. Now that I see some of the freshman and see what they do, I just think how could I have thought that was funny. I do anticipate big changes in the future even though you never really know what the future holds for you. I hope to go to college and become someone who makes a lot of money. All I really what in life is to become successful and provide my family as well as myself some of the things I couldn’t have when I was younger. Not to say that I didn’t have what I wanted as a kid but eveyone aslways wants a little more. I also just want my parents to be proud of me and what I do. I do like who I am sometimes. The only thing I don’t like is that I’m not very open to new things and I wish I was. I don’t really think I can really tell who I truly am in life so far. I mean im only 16 and according to my mom I don’t know anything yet. I learn new things everyday and I can’t say I no who I truly am yet.
The charecterists that make me who i am, hmm. Well im really not sure yet because my personality changes like all the time, in school im pretty shy but then outside of school im like way differnt im really outgoing then. But the characteristics i feel i have are like funny, nice, easy to get along with, sometimes can be mean, and a caring person. I feel i got this way becasue i live with my parents and they are kind of the same way i am they are both nice, funny easy to get along with, so yeah i feel that is how i got this way. Yes i have deffinately changed since iwas a freshman, last year i was so wild in school just doing whatever i wanted kind of but now i dont becuas ei realized how immature that was, since 2 years ago until now i have matured ALOT. I deffinately feel that there shall be big changes in the future. Since i was alittle kid i have always loved who i am. I was always i playful kid wheni was younger an i would get along with just about anyone. When i was younger though i was never shy, but as i grew older i feel i became more shy, since i still am shy now.adsfasdfsfa
What makes me myself are my ideas, values, and the way i look at things. What greatly determines who i am is my sense of loyalty, my sense of humor, and my annoyance of obnoxious or very loud people, or anything that is too direct to annoy me. I think the answer to how i became this way is that ive seen what people are like that are traitorous and i dont like them at all, as for my annoyance of loud or obnoxious people i would have to say is always being alone for 7hrs each day for 2 years and having to deal with loud people during 6th grade. Think the majority of the annoyance is being stuck in some classes with the most loud, obnoxious, and oblivious people i ever met. Ive changed over the past 2 years only alittle, im taller by about 2inches, ive learned to just keep my mouth shut and ignore idiotic people, and i hate a lot more people than i did when i first started oakcrest. Only due to the fact that most of the freshmen i come in contact with are obnoxious, arrogant, think they know it all freshmen that need to get beat up. Any big changes in the future, once i leave high school ill start college and i wont be near idiotic annoying people hopefully or at least i have the choice to walk away from them completely instead of being forced to be near them in a classroom. Yes i like who i am and i have always liked who i am. If i didnt like me, i would committ suicide i think, but that will never happen since i cant hate myself. As long as i follow my sense of honor and morales.
Well, I changed so much from my freshmen year. My freshmen, I was the girl who was always self conscious and paranoid but what people say about me behind my back. I also was a afraid to enjoy life too much, so I didn't do many things. Now, I'm care less what people say and I live my life to the fullest because I realized that life is too short and I rather have fun being happy before its my time to go.
I think that I got to being me (now) when I realized that having fun is the most important thing in life, its like the key to happiness and a good life.
I certainly do like who I am right at this moment because I am myself, I'm not doing things to make more friends or to be cool. I do things that I want to do.
There are those times when I feel like I should be more serious about things. Sometimes, I ignore problems because i fear the worst about everything. I think that sometimes I just need to slow things down and not worry about everything. =]
Who am I? This, to me, is one of those questions that will never have a definite answer because I know people who are in their thirty's and have yet to find themselves. Since my freshmen year I've noticed how i've changed and grown. My freshmen year and most of my eighth grade year were the years that I lived my life through others, meaning I dressed and acted a certain way in order to fit in and be "cool." I've always had insecurites about myself but it wasn't until this year that I've really become almost completely comfortable in
my own skin.
I
can look at myself in the mirror and actually be happy with what I see. I can't say that i've found myself but I can say that I've taken many important steps towards that goal,of finding myself. In the future I can see myself becoming fully comfortable with who I am as a person and not care at all what people think about me because I won't be scared to be me.
Who am I? This, to me, is one of those questions that will never have a definite answer because I know people who are in their thirty's and have yet to find themselves. Since my freshmen year I've noticed how i've changed and grown. My freshmen year and most of my eighth grade year were the years that I lived my life through others, meaning I dressed and acted a certain way in order to fit in and be "cool." I've always had insecurites about myself but it wasn't until this year that I've really become almost completely comfortable in
my own skin.
I
can look at myself in the mirror and actually be happy with what I see. I can't say that i've found myself but I can say that I've taken many important steps towards that goal,of finding myself. In the future I can see myself becoming fully comfortable with who I am as a person and not care at all what people think about me because I won't be scared to be me.
I have always liked myself because I couldn't ever hate myself. I have changed since I was a freshman(only because you said to tell you I have). I have changed a lot because of the music I listen to, the way i dress, and what I do. I play guitar for example, something I started the summer before high school. I think a big influence that has changed me is where I live. In Maryland, i was a lot different than I am now, here in NJ. Another change is that I have a gf, so thats a big one. I don't see any big changes happening in the future, maybe moving out on my own or marriage if you would count those. I like the way I am and I don't plan on changing any time soon.
The only way to really find out who you are is by testing yourself and seeing how you are in certain situations. For instance being quiet and to myself makes me who i am because thats how i live my life and how i handle situations. I think i got this way because i dont always agree with everyone else and just like doing things my way. In the last couple years i have changed from just doing everything that everyone else was and stuff along those lines to doing what ever i like and this has lost me friends but gained a couple of the greatest friends i could ask for. I think everyone should anticipate big changes in the future because its like bob dylan once said "the times they are a changin" and thats completey true because everything changes eventually with time. I really like who i am at this time and in a ways its sad knowing that im going to have to change. I have always liked who i was for the most part. Some stages i look back on and laugh.
This is a really good question, I think at this age everyone starts to figure themselfe out. I know that I have changed so much from Freshman year to know. I know that last year I wasn't very responsible with my grades and wanting to do anything with my school work, but now this year grades come before everything in my life now. I have a very good example for this question, my freshman year was just a party time for me and I think it was for a lot of people because you were meeting so many people that drove and older boyfriends and the parties, school wasn't a thing for me. This year the parties wasn't a part of me anymore, I am a better person without the party group. I like the way that I am now because me and my mother don't fight like we use to and she hated it when I were to go out to parties because it would make her worry about me, and now I just feel a lot better about my self, I'm starting my job soon and i'll have money for my car soon so it makes me really happy and excited and proud of myself. I like who i am now, but not my feshman year. So year i think that i know a little more about myself because i've grown to be a responsible young lady.
I AM LAWRENCE MOTHA F*&%IN ACHEY!!!
Haha. just kiddin. But seriously. I have certainly changed over the past few years. I love my life and wouldn't trade it for anything. I try to make the best out of everything and expand my horizons to everything life has to offer. I want to be everywhere, try everything, and really make me not feel that I missed out when I'm old and ready to die. What makes me, me? Well, many things make me the way I" am. My family is awesome and they definately impact how I am. They crack me up and I let it all out when they're around. My friends are a huge part in my life. I don't stick to a style or a trend. I "go with the flow". Coaches, relatives, and most importantly, my decisions. My decisions not only make me who I am, but change my reputation and the way people look at me. Who they think I really am. Honestly, who I think I am, everybody else thinks I am. I don't let anything hide and I'm not fake in any way, shape, or form. Then I wouldn't be me. Who would I be? What some others want me to be? what I wish I was? Yeah right. Fake people are just people who try to fit in because they need attention or aren't satisfied with who they are or how they act. I want to stick to the path I'm on now. I hope in the future for a miracle. I want to live the life of a rockstar. You could say I'm hoping for a miracle. A miracle might not be too far away. I, however, won't rely on that though. I will first see where my brain or athleticism might get me. At the very least, I would like to have a job that I love with a band on the side. I have a dream of traveling and meeting everyone which brings me back to the beginning. I want to experience everything. I want to meet that special girl who helps me get there and supports me all the way through. What ever life might throw at me, I'm going to try to take. Damn, I didn't know I could think like that. Rock out Mrs. Bunje. Life's a garden..dig it.
Since my freshman year I realized that I have become very laid back on many situations, big or small. I'm always looking to laugh and have a good time, I don't like arguing even though I am somewhat told I am good at arguing. I am the kind of person that you can tell jokes to but you wouldn't have to worry about them getting mad, If you know what I mean. And before high school I always used to take situations serious, I was aggressive on things. For some reason when I moved here I changed alot. Maybe because it's the environment or what (by my classmates). I'm not sure how I would change in the future, I don't know where I would be a year or 2 years from now let alone how I would act. But if I do change I hope it's to become more focused on what is important in life. I like who I am, I don't think I don't need to change anything, because what I am makes me...me.
Well, as I already sort of hinted at when I posed the question, who I am is much more than just a random musing that crosses my mind from time to time. I think about this question quite a lot, probably because of the "quest" I seem to constantly find myself on in search for the ever-elusive answer. Some band, The Ataris I think, has a song called "Who I Am Hates Who I've Been" and that is sort of accurate I think, at least for me. Although I have always had the same basic character traits; that is, a little dorky, sarcastic and introspective, there was a time in my life when I tried to push all those little things that made me "me" aside and be something else entirely. This was usually because I thought that might make my mother like me more, but that never really worked and I only ended up being way more miserable that I could have ever imagined. Since that time, I think I gave up on trying to be what she wanted me to be, and instead focused more on what I really was. As it turns out, that person was pretty likable and we seem to get along on just fine, lol.
WHO AM I ? WELL I GUESS THIS IS A REAL BURNING QUESTION WELL I GUESS I ME. WELL I NOT SURE WHATEVER I DON'T KNOW AT ALL.ONE MINUTE I THINK I THIS REAL SMART PERSON NEXT MINUTE I THINK I THIS FAMOUS PERSON MAN I THINK SO MANY THINGS. ONE THING I REALLY. LOVE IS MY character I LOVE HOW FUNNY I AM HOW I CAN TURN MANY FROWNS UP SIDE DOWN HOW I CAN CHANGE AND MAKE AN IMPRESSERION ON SOMEBODY LIFE I BARELY KNOW. I JUST A ALL AROUND GREAT PERSON PERSONAL. WELL DURING FRESHMAN YEARS I WAS ALL ABOUT WHERE THE BOYS AT THEN I FOUND A LOVE BUT NOT REALLY BUT THIS YEAR I IM COOL CALM AND COLLECTIVE I DON'T REALLY CARE WHO LIKES ME WHO LOOKING AT ME OR WHO HATING IM JUST NOT WORRIED ABOUT TINY SITUATIONS ANYMORE LIKE I USE TO BE.WELL ONE THING that HASN'T CHANGE IS WHAT IM WANNA BE WHEN I GROW UP AND I STILL WANNA BE A TEACHER OR A DOCTOR.AND IF I COULD CHANGE ANYTHING ABOUT MY SELF IT WOULD BE NOTHING BECAUSE I LOVE ME AND BEING ME IS GREAT I WOULDN'T CHANGE A THING BECAUSE I SAY EITHER LOVE FOR WHO I AM OR DON'T LOVE ME AT ALL.
I THINK THAT I AM A FUNNY, OUTGOING, LOUD, AND WEIRD MAINLY BECAUSE MY MOM IS LIKE THAT AND I AM ALWAYS AROUND HER. I ALSO NOTICE THAT I GET MORE AND MORE LIKE HER EACH DAY. FOR EXAMPLE I SOUND LIKE HER, I AM AN DARK SKINNED VERSION OF HER AND WE ALSO THINK ALIKE. OVER THE PAST 2 YEARS OF HIGH SCHOOL I HAVE BECAME SILLIER AND LESS AGRESSIVE. I LOVE WHO I AM BECAUSE NOBODY CAN'T BE LIKE ME EVEN IF THEY TRIED. AS WELL I FIND OUT WHO MY REAL FRIENDS ARE BY ACTING WHO I AM EVERY DAY. AND TO LET YOU KNOW I HAVE DROPPED A LOT OF FRIENDS IN THE PAST 2 YEARS. I DONT KNOW IF I ALWAYS LIKED WHO I WAS MAINLY BECAUSE I COULDN'T FIND A REAL FRIED WHO LIKED ME FOR ME. THE FRIENDS THAT I HAD IN THE PAST WAS FAKE THEY WAS ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT ME BEHIND MY BACK AND SOME OF THEM WAS ONLY MY FRIEND BECAUSE I HAVE MONEY OR JUST BECAUSE I HAD SOMETING THEY WANTED.
Hmmm . I my self am composed of numberous personallity traits/charecteristics , that make me up to be who i am . But , to name a few , I'm caring , stubern , genuine , jealous , happy for the most part , weary , etc . I got this way by my life stile growing up I guess you could say , traveling and meeting so many people and such . I've cahnged alot during my past two years in high school . Freshman year i was care free and didnt' think about consiquences of my actiuons . Now , I'm more thoughtful , and grown up . I really did grow so much this year , and I'm proud to say that . I don't want to change , only to grow more and more , but i liek who I am now . I'm pretty sure this year I've found my self , but you know , there's always more to learn .
Sometimes I wonder the same thing, I really don't know who I was for a long time. I have changed alot since Freshmen year, I've grown really mature, and independent.Since my last break up last year that was a year long I realized how to be much stronger, and stick up for what I know and feel is right. I do anticipate alot of huge changes in the near future,from going college , hopefully making it work between my boyfriend and I , getting a car, a job etc. I haven't always liked who I was probably from alot of the things that I have gone through personally , that I always hold things in and never say anything alot , but when it does comes out I'm not the nicest person. As of right now I do like who I am for once in my life because I have people in my life now that love me for who I am and now, who I am for real. At times I really don't know who I'am, I always wondered how come other people can tell you who you are but when you come to think of it when someone askes you who you are all you tell them is your own name.
like you bunje this is a hard question for me to answer. however i think the characteristics that help to make me who i am is my bubbly personality, my habit of speaking my mind,im hard headed,strong willed, and full of energy. i think i got this way through my parents and certain problems i had to overcome through the years.i have changed big time since freshman year. i have learned not to take peoples bull and to pick and choose my battles. i dont really anticipate any big changes later on in life but im sure they will happen. like college, a car, a job, marriage, and kids. never liked who i used to be but i delt with it. i used to be the girl who would let mostly anyone walk all over me. i used to be a follower and do things just because my frieds did it. but now im the leader and i do things for me and no one else. i lvoe who i am today and if others have a problem with it thats too bad.
Some characteristics that help me be who i am is my get know easily, and my friendly personality. But their are some i dont like. One i dont like is my lazyness. It make me get into trouble sometime and even into an argument. But think i have changed since freshman year, even though some people say i haven't. They say im still the same nice person but i think i've ben a little more meaner. But i probally have what do you think??
The things that I think make me who i am are the way that I talk to people and the way that I react to the things that they say, bad or not. Like if somebody said something bad to me I would tell them that I have a problem with it. I think that I got that way because of my sisters and seeing how they communicate with each other. I was very observant as a child and I said what everybody else said and I am basically like different components of everybody that surrounds me. Yes, I think that I have changed over the past 2 years. When I was a freshman, I was very immature. I didn't know when to stop doing things. I was very annoying, especially to everybody in the school. I also anticipate many changes in the future. I am like a flower that is budding right now and soon I will bloom into my full personality. Hopefully the bloom is a cahnge for the better so I'm not some asshole businessman. I do like who I am sometimes. The times that I don't are when I feel like I'm being and asshole or something. like I treat people like trash sometimes and I look back on that and I say that I am going to change it. I do like who I am when everybody can talk with me comfortably without being like "oh he's an a-hole." Also, my feelings about who I am can be wishy washy like I won't like myself at one time because of something stupid and then I'll be like "that was a good move" and be proud of myself. The Idea of who I am is still in the process of fully blooming and I can't wait to find out who I am.
well in my opinion, everyday people are trying to figure out who they really are. i think i pretty much know who i am and for the most part i like who i am. during the past couple years i dont think i have changed too much. like i still procrastinate everything i do in school and still have the same work habits. but there was a big change i made and that was i picked the friends that i knew i could trust and tried to avoid those who i knew would bring me down and are bringing down others as of now. in the future i dont really anticipate any big changes in who i am. yeah i'll be older and more mature but other than that i dont think i will be changing much as a person. i dont know if i have always liked who i am but everyone doesnt like themselves at time either due to bad mistakes or just bad actions. but i would say i am pretty satisfied with who i am as a person.
Well for one i have auburn hair, none of my friends or any one else i know has that i think that makes me a little different. I was jsut born like that. Ive changed in a bunch of ways that i cant realy think of since being a freshamn i know i got more mature, taller and now i know more than i ever did. I can anticipate changes in the future but i dont choose too. I like how i am most of the time. Sometimes i dont because i am such an honest person and sometimes i got to far but its not like i mena any harm by it im jsut being myself i dont rewlaly like that. I have always liked myself i mean im not insecure so im fine.
I cannot say that I know exactly who I am at this point in my life.I have changed so much since September of 2005. When I first started freshmen year at the oak, I was the shy, quiet, paranoid, self conscious girl who always kept to herself. I only talked to people I knew. Now I am more outspoken. If you bother me I will bother you back. I really do not take anyone's crap anymore. I no longer can trust a lot of people. I am more outgoing and I talk a lot more. I think I got this way from the many good and bad experiences that I have had over the past two years. I really don't care too much of what people think about me anywhere. I do anticipate the future, but in a way I don't either. I'm weird but oh well. I am happy with the way I am, and if other people aren't then oh well, they need to get over themselves. I am probably this way because of something they have done to me. I haven't always liked who I am though, but obviously I have gotten over that. I am who I am, and no ones approval is needed and if they don't like it well then i don't need them.
Well, I think that some people have almost the same characteristics, they just use them in different ways, and that's what makes their personality so different. I would say that I'm a completely different person when I'm in school, and when i'm with my friends. At school, i'm all shy and quiet, I pay atention in the classes and do my homework. When i'm with my friends, at least in brazil, I'm all loud, crazy and just want to have fun. I don't really know how I got that way, but probably I have been influenced by my parents. They were always good students at school and got grades, but they are kind a crazy and love to have fun. All my friends say that I have a very strong personality. They say I'm a funny and nice person, but i can get mad really easy sometimes at people. They also say I'm very sensitive and I'm always trying to help my friends and give them advices. I changed a lot since my first year of high school. Actually, this is my third year, because high school in brazil is different, and I'm a junior there. So anyway, I changed a lot. What really made me change, and is still making me change, is my exchange. My host parents said that I changed a lot since I got here. It has been almost eight months, and I can feel that. I think I'm more mature, and I know now how to do things by myself. I definetly wasn't like this before I went through this experience. I do anticipate another great change when I return to Brazil. I'm going back to my old way of living, my family and friends, but I'm not the same. I can't say that I have always liked who I am. When i was a little girl, about five years old, I just hated myself, even my own name. I thought I was the ugliest perosn in the world, but today I can tell that I'm satisfied with myself. Even after answering all of these questions, I don't feel I truly know myself.
"MONINI"! I guess I've never really thought about who I am.You might say that it never really mattered to me. The main thing that makes me, has to be the fact that I'm always different.I like to say that everyone is taking three steps to the right and one up. So I will take four steps to the right and one back. The other things that make me who I am, has to be how kind I am to other people, the way I speak, and my sarcasm. I'm not sure how I got this way but it's probably because of my older brother. When I was younger I use to hang around my brother and his friends who all have different personalities. My brothers best friend is very funny and a kind hearted person, while my brother is scarcastic,and not afraid to be the odd ball. Since I have been around them we all say "monin" whenever we see people. I guess that they just rubbed off on me to help form my personality traits. There's no dought that I have changed in the past two years. I use to be very shy and cared what other people thought about me. Now I'm still a little shy, and I really don't care what other people think about me. I don't really anticipate any big changes in my future. If I had to rate how much I liked who I am I would give it a 3 out of 2. I've always felt the same about who I am and I plan on it staying that way.
I have definitly changed over the past two years of high school. I went through some bad times last year with my friends. Which showed me who my real friends are, and not to tell new people you met about personal things because it could spread like crazy. So, it takes me awhile to really opean up to people. Also, this year I am more spoken than last year, because I'd be the quiet and smart kid that never says anything. But, I learned to speak up for yourself and your friends. I do like how I am because even though I'm not friends with my old ones. I'm still friendly to them, because like everyone says you should treat people the way you would want to be treated. I also learned that being mean in life will get you no where. So, you should be nice to everyone, even if you don't like them.
well my name is Robbie and im just a normal good looking guy. I would say that i like to joke around alot but im not sure if i like that. I want to be a more serious person and hopfully i will become one in the future because its hard for people to take me seriously when im trying to be, and i find that annnoying. Over the past 2 years of high school i would say that i did indeed change. I have made alot more friends and good ones at that. I also started getting facial hair =). But one good thing that didnt change is the fact that i still have my friends that i had befor highschool. I think in the future i will become even more mature and become a grown man and start a family of my own after college. I would have to say that i do like myself, if i didnt then i wouldnt be the way i am.
I think my loyalty and honesty have a lot to do with who I am. I am completely loyal to my friends and my family. I try to be as honest as I can be with everyone and everything. I probably became this way because I realized how important it was to have honest and loyal people in your life. So, if I can be that person to someone I will be. I have changed a lot over the past two years, mostly in the past year. When I started high school I started becoming much more outspoken. When I became friends with the group of girls I'm friends with now I also changed a lot. I've learned a lot from them and I'm sure I will keep learning for a long time. In the future I do expect big changes because they are bound to happen. With every experience in life I think a change comes too. I have no idea what will change though but I'm excited. I didn't like the person I was for a long time but I've always liked the person I knew I could be and am now.
To be honest, i never really put a lot of thought into who i am, I just assumed it was one of those things you just know. I'm a energetic, "deep", loving and intellegent male. I think i got this way from the way i was raised and from the where i was raised. My parents raised me very unique way, i don't even know how to explain it. They weren't very strict but still established a lot of values into me. Also, the fact that my whole life i have lived in the woods was important to the developement of who i am. In the woods there isnt all that much to do but to think. So i do a lot of deep thinking and have done it my whole life. I have surely changed over the past two years. I don't really think that the changes are very substanial. In my future, i dont really expect any changes in my character. Who i am is who i am, i just don't change all that much. I love who i am. I'm very unique and orginal, you don't find a person like me everyday.
For Starters, my name is Nick. I guess you could say that I'm just a normal kid that goes to school during the week and lives for the weekends. Sometimes i can be funny, but sometimes i can be serious too. Soccer is my favorite sport and i could play it all day long. I usually play goal keeper, but I've been known to be a pretty decent striker too. When i was younger, i used to play piano a lot, and i guess that was a sort-of a stepping stone on my way to playing guitar. Whenever i play guitar, i forget about everything around me and just concentrate on the music. To me, it is a great way to relieve the stresses of everyday life. I guess that's why i like to play it. Anyway, in school i'm usually known as the "quiet kid" because i just sit in my desk and never say anything. Probably the reason why i am so quiet, would have to be because i just like to listen. However, out of school, my friends tell me that i never shut up.
I am almost 100% sure that i have changed over the last few years. When i was a freshman, i was even quieter than am i am now. I guess because i was in a new school and all that stuff. I would have to say that, that is one of the only things that i dislike about myself. But, in the end, I am who i am and no one can change that.
I really do not think about who I am that often, but I think I am two different people. There is the school me which is very quiet and shy. Then there is the outside of school me which is when I am just with my friends or family and I am usually outspoken and funny. I really do not think I have changed since Freshman year except maybe I am a little bit smarter. I still hang out with the same people and I still have the traits or characteristics. I anticipate two big changes in the future. One is the transition from High School to college and the other is the transition from a student to an adult with a job. I like who I am except that I am a little bit lazy which is why I am doing the blog at ten o'clock the night before it is due, but other that that I am happy with who I am.
I have been through many stages of my life. I was always active playing sports witch i still am. Scince my freshman year i noticed many changes not only physically but mentally also. I noticed that life isnt easy you have to work hard for what you want. My freshman year i didnt really take school that serious because i was having to much fun with my freinds. Now i realized that i had to take school seriously in order to have a good future. I became more mature and started becoming more dedicated to school than i ever been. I left hanging out with my freinds for the weeknds and studied the hole week to prepare my self for the next day. School didnt only make me more mature but it made me more responsible out of school which made me a better person. My parents noticed that i changed alot also because they noticed that i havnt been hangong out with my friends as much as i used to. i dont know if i going to keep on changing but if i do im always going to have the same name and im always going to keep on trying for waht i want and im never going to give up no matter what gets in my way.
the personality traits and characteristics that make me who i am is quite, stubern, happy, down to earth person. i know who i am i just dont know what im suppose to be or what my purpose in life is yet. we were all put here for a reason. i think that my older cousin jenn has alot of inflience on my personality. she was the one that was always there for me whenever i needed her and i learned alot from her. im sure i got some of my personality and characteristics from my parents to since im with them everyday. they have a impact on everything that i do. i have definilty changed over the past 2 years. i use to let what people said get to me but now i could care less what people have to say. i have more confidence then i use to and feel more comfortable about myself. yes i like who i am now and i wouldnt change myself for anyone. i have always liked who i was but just not some of the things i use to do.
I was always able to determine what type of person I am and will become to be. I am not at all a complex person and that is if I don't want to be. I hate people who try to read me and if you do I make it very diffcult to figure me out. Above all I am a very kind hearted person. Although when I was younger I was very shy and passive. When I got older mainly from karate I learn to assert myself and now I am still kind but I ssert my self when need. I matured over the past 2 years but I still try to remain humble.
the traits that make me are funny outspoken and cool. since my freashman year i think i havent changed that much although there are a few noticible changes. im not as lazy as i used to be but i am still very lazy. and im a lot smarter. not even book smarter but smarter in general. personality traits make me me good or bad im happy with who i am. and will always look to improve myself.
WELL, THIS QUESTION IS MORE DIFFICULT THAN I THOUGHT IT WOULD BE. IM JUST GOING TO GIVE THIS QUESTION A GUESS. I FEEL THAT I AM A VERY NICE PERSON. I GET ALONG WITH almost EVERYONE. SOME PEOPLE DO GIVE ME ATTITUDE AND ARE RUDE TO ME AND THOSE PEOPLE BRING OUT THE NOT-SO-NICE SIDE OF ME. I DONT LIKE THAT SIDE OF ME, BUT IM NOT JUST GOING TO SIT THERE AND TAKE IT FROM SOMEONE DISRESPECTING. I RESPECT ANYONE THAT GIVES ME RESPECT BECAUSE I FEEL THEY DESERVE THAT MUCH. I CAN BE VERY SYMPATHETIC TOWARDS MANY PEOPLE. I FEEL BAD IF THEY GET TEASED OR PEOPLE MAKE FUN OF THEM. IF THEY TALKED ABOUT ME, THEN I WOULD FEEL NO SYMPATHY [I HAD A RECENT EXPERIENCE WITH THAT]. I AM AN ENERGETIC PERSON. IF I SIT THERE DOING NOTHING AND NOT MEETING NEW PEOPLE, I WOULD NOT LIKE THAT ABOUT ME. MY PARENTS HAVE RAISED ME IN A STRICT HOUSEHOLD. I LIKE THE WAY I AM BECAUSE I FEEL THAT I AM THE PERSON MY PARENTS WANTED TO BE. I PAY ATTENTION AND DO WHAT I NEED TO DO BEFORE I DO WHAT I WANT TO DO. SOME BAD TRAITS ABOUT ME THAT I DONT LIKE ABOUT ME IS MY TEMPER. I CAN GET A REALLY BAD TEMPER IF I AM PISSED OFF. I HAVE NOT ALWAYS LIKED THE WAY I AM BECAUSE I HARDLY TALKED. OVER THE PAST TWO YEARS IN HIGH SCHOOL, I FEEL IT IS THE PERSON I AM GOING TO BE IN THE FUTURE. HIGH SCHOOL IS A STAGE IN MY LIFE WHERE IM CHANGIN. I STILL AM CHANGING. I AM FINDING OUT WHAT THE REST OF ME HAS TO OFFER IN LIFE. I CAN CHANGE MY LIFE RIGHT NOW TO MAKE MY LIFE BETTER IN THE FUTURE. THIS IS WHO I AM!
the things that make me who i am would have to be my character, at timesi can be funny and witty and caring, things like that.how i think i got this way was probably from my friends and family.Being around them brought out who i really am.i have really changed over the past two years.before i was wild but i always cared about what people would think about me, i let other people live my life when i was the one that should have.in the future i want to make alot of money,have alot of nice things in the world, and give back to those less fortunate.Right now i really dont like who i am,i care to much about the people around me and what they think of me and not what i feel and what i think.in the past i did because i didnt know hwo i was,right now im still trying to find who i am,it might take me days,months years,decades, hopefully i will know before i die. (in the late future)
These questions really made me think,and this is what I came up with. The characteristics that make Jasmine is that I am a very loving, loud, and interesting person. I also hide things at times because I dont want everybody to know how I feel and because I dont want to bother people with how I feel and my own problems. My loving trait is to a certain extent because Its really hard for me to let people in because of my fear of getting hurt, also because some people just get on my nerves and I want to say SHUT UP!!!To tell the truth I don't know why Im this way. I know it was a gradual change. I have changed alot because I can see it in myself, Im not doing what Im supposed to be doing and that is hurting me. I try and try to do the right thing but it doesn't always happen like that. Yes i really want to get better attitude wise because I know if I had a better attitude then my whole out look would be better. No right now I really don't like who I am i like who I was before I started changing and it wasn't for the better it was for the worse. These questions really made me sit here and think about what kind of person I am. And who I want to be in the future, I know that I am going to change and this time it's for the better.
I personally think that i am a unique person. I am told that i am a harder worker. I am also told i am lazy. I think that is funny for some reason. For example my o.p paper. im lazy about and wait to the last minunte to do it. But when i do it i work really hard. I also work really hard for sports. My life revolves around sports. So I am also athletic. Alot of people know me as a funny guy but what people dont know about is that i am a very sensentive person. I can be hurt pretty easy. But i am not a push over. From freshman year to this year i think i changed a little bit. Last year thought to much what people think. Now i could care less. I also do what i want.I hope in the futre i dont get hutr as easy as i do. I hope i can become a stronger person.
To tell the truth Bunje i guess that makes the both of us in the same boat.Because if i had to write a paper on who I am or Who i want to be in the Future i wouldnt and im not to sure if this is good or bad.im figureing it is bad because by this age you should be able to somehow describe yourself well maybe not fully but almost.Alot things run thru my head because like most teenagers I am scared of what people might say or think of me.I try to please my family and live up to there expectations i hate be the center of problems and i hate letting people down.All my life i have be the type to make care to much i guess you can say.I tend to make people my Priority when half the time im just another opition to them.I wonder to myself why is that?I ask my self constanly why and tell my self i need to make a change but its an habit i cant change.
As for changing in highschool there been a drastic change though I tend to care what people say its doesnt get to me as much as it did back in middle school.the last two years I have dared to be different.If im always the same as someone else theres no point in exsisting in my option its better to be known with distinction.Its how u are distinct though thats plays a part in your character.
As for knowning who i am is a quest that i have yet finish.
My open mindedness if that is even a word definately helps set me apart from the crowd and attract the freinds who i hold. Even from my friends there is a difference between me and them. i have never been a big racist or follower or any of the things which means making different ive always just tried to blend in or be normal but in a sence thats what makes me different. I have many personality traits such as im goofy beyond belief and like being a clown but not to the point were you'll here about my antics or shananagins just enough to have a good laugh and fun memory with my family and friends. These last to years at Oakcrest high have helped molded me but not in a bad way or serious was more in a cautious way. I have become a more attentive person and a less caring person at the very same time. I dont anticipate any big changes for the future but who am i to anticipate because you never know what tomorrow holds.
I really can honestly say "I LOVE WHO I AM!" I would describe myself as a more outgoing fun person, easily to get along with, energetic, loud, and just a all around great person. Im the type of person you get advice from in almost every situation. Im also a really loving person and the people tend to say its really easy to be themselves around me, because I tend to accept everyone no matter what differences we might have. Since Freshman year I have changed, I have learned to control my anger to a new level and I love it!! I chose a new outlook on life stepping into the 10th grade, of not to fall into anything that would cause my life to be harder than it is. I really dont know why I am how I am, but some people say my enviorment. Everyone in my house is EXTREMLY LOUD and I am too, everyone in my house is really really smart and I am too. But everyone in my house does not accept people for who they are and what they can be, but I do, and thats were I get confused. I have adapted to living in Mayslanding very well, I have become really well known to people for other things I do instead of the girl who can fight and is really loud. I would not change who I am ever..and like Mary J.Blidge said "Just take me as I am, or have nothing at all"
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I've thought about what characteristics describe me before and couldn't if you would have asked me last year, I wouldn't be able to tell you. It wasn't till this year was when I had figured it out. I am a very sarcastic,mysterious,intelligent person. The turkish term "esprili" can describe me. It means clever,funny, and witty. The things that make me who I am would be the fact that I'm not like most girls. I like dresses up and doing all that girly stuff, but more importantly I LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE cars,motorcycles,street racing,boats,snowboarding,and a lot of other things. I mainly got these things from my dad; I act just like him. We are both laid-back and just go-with-the-flow type of people. I am the way I am is because I don't like to be serious. I think being sarcastic and funny is the best way to live life. I hate perfectness if that is even a word and I try not to live by it. I try to not live up to people's expectations. I'm a very unpredictable person. I like being this way along with being mysterious because then people don't know what to expect of me. During the last 2 years of high school I've changed a lot. I was a juggalette and used to smoke.(I don't anymore though). I'm still like a juggalette now and everything but my outward appearance is different. I'm nicer to people now instead of just ignoring them. I do anticipate big things in the future. I plan to do big things like live in hawaii because I miss it there sooooooo much. Even though I don't know what's going to happen in the future, I know that it is going to be real good. For the most part right now, I am content with myself. I like who I am and I wouldn't EVER change for someone. If they don't like me, then that's their problem because I'm an awesome person. I have not always liked myself, I don't think anyone has. As people grow up, they mature and begin to slowly find out who they are.
A few personality traits that make me who I am are. I'm smart, funny, kind, organized, trusting, carring, curtious, loyal, quiet and adventurous. I think I got that way from my parents teaching me the right things to do and from being a member of the Boy Scouts of America. I became more organized and even more adventurous by going on more hikes and I've gotten smarter. I do expect some big changes in the future and I do like who I am very much. I have always liked who I am. Through Boy Scout I have gained many traits that make me who I am and will help me out later on through life. My parents have taught me alot of traits that make me who I am and will help me later on in life and that help me make friends.
I AM ME. I'M ENERGETIC, SHY AT TIMES, LOUD, RESPECTFUL WHEN I KNOW I HAVE TO BE, DEDICATED, A MOSHER NOT A FIGHTER(FEW PEOPLE UNDERSTAND THAT), A PROCRASTINATOR, AND MANY MORE THINGS THAT YOU ALREADY KNOW BUNJE. I LOVE WHO I AM, BUT IT WASN'T ALWAYS LIKE THAT. A FEW YEARS AGO, I WAS A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT PERSON AND I'M GLAD I MADE A CHANGE FOR THE BETTER. SO WHY DID I CHANGE? WHO AM I NOW? I REALIZED THAT I HATED WHO I WAS, ALWAYS NEGATIVE AND ANGRY..PROBLEMS AND MORE PROBLEMS. I KNOW I'M NOT PERFECT. AT TIMES I CAN BE VERY JEALOUS; I PRE-JUDGE PEOPLE; I LIE TO GET OUT OF PRETTY MUCH ANY SITUATION I'M NOT COMFORTABLE WITH; I'M MEAN; AND A LOT OF OTHER THINGS..I THINK THAT MUSIC SAVES ME. WHEN I'M FRUSTRATED, I JUST BLOCK EVERYTHING OUT AND CLOSE MY EYES AND LISTEN TO MUSIC. IT'S REALLY A SPIRITUAL THING TO ME. I CAN CLEAR MY HEAD AND IT KEEPS ME FROM GETTING ANGRY AND FREAKING OUT. AS FOR THE FUTURE, I DON'T THINK ABOUT IT THAT MUCH, BUT I THINK IN THE FAR FUTURE WILL BE COLLEGE, MORE COLLEGE, A HUSBAND, 3 KIDS, AND WHATEVER ELSE COMES. I THINK MY PERSONALITY WILL CHANGE A LITTLE. I THINK I'LL GET MORE MATURE. SO, FOR NOW, I'M ERIN, THE-"TREE-HUGGER"-CONCERT JUNKIE-HYPER-FRIENDLY-ADOLESCENT WITH AN OPEN MIND.
Wow, this one is going to be a real eye opener. I guess since last year I have changed quit a bit. Well when I was a freshman I was more scared and nervous. Just because I was going to a new school with new people and I was once again at the “bottom of the food chain.” I also guess since it was HIGH SCHOOL made things a lot different then they actually were. People made it seem like Oakcrest was like prison. They made it seem so bad, so when I got here I was a scared and nervous that I might slip up and get on someone’s bad said. When I’m asked to describe myself I tend to ask other people what they think, because I have my opinion but I think the people who are around me know my personality a lot better than I do. They tell me that I am very funny, nice, opinionated, and protective. I think I got the way I am because of how I grew up. When I was growing up I was soured by funny people (my aunts, cousin, mom, etc.) My mother and father always taught me to be nice to people but never let people walk all over you and also speak my mind. So that’s why I think that I became a very funny, nice, and opinionated person. On the part about me being very protective would defiantly be because of certain things that happened in my pass that hurt the ones I loved. So therefore I watch out for my loved ones a lot more now so that I’m certain it won’t happen again. I do like the person I am now, I think for right now at the age I am, I am just right. Yes, later on I would need to change but right now I’m only a 16 year old girl living my life. I think that over the years I will change. I believe I will change the most after high school. After high school I will be heading off to colleges and getting ready to be out on my home. Therefore I believe I will become more responsible and hardworking because those are some of the skills you need later on in life.
The trait that makes me are. I am always up for something crazy. I am over exiting and joking around, but bunji dosent think so!! I can anoy people sometimes. I am a daredevil. i got this way from my dad because he is kinda like that. I dont push my limits when i joke around. I use to anoy people very bad. Kinda mabey to be a little comer than i am now. I can be serious when i want. Yes i love who i am beacuse i am fun to be around with. I am Intellagent when i want to be in surtant things. Yes i love my self always. I am kind to all people if you give me respect or some kind of chance. People say that i am helpfull to lots of people. Call me any time and i can help with something. I am a problem solver some people say. I can get pissed off easly by some stuff. I am gods gift. Just like every one else in this buetifle world.
please exuse my lateness on this blog since i was gone on vacation. anyone, i feel strongly on who i am. i feel that i am a good person and always have good intensions but i do tend to get myself into bad positions. one of my most distinctive characteristics is tht i'm 9utoging. i can be the life at any party and will tlk to just about anyone. i know i'm like thius because i've moved a lot in my life. going to new schools and always meeting new people was a big factor to me. i couldnt just be shy or i would have never made it. all my good friends know that i'm energetic and friendly. even in my 6th grade year book i was voted most friendliest. changes happen everyday and the past two years i've changed a lot. i've gone closer to my boyfriend and i think i learned a lot of values in life, i'm trying to be more serious and i've matured a lot. i've had things happen to me i never thought would and i've seen my best friends change for the worse and that has taught me a lot. you see i have a constant need to be different from everyone. i dont know if its a good thing but to me its something i like. people should be a little more unique these days in stead of being fake. there are things about me i like and th8ings i do not like but i do know that i'm still finding out who i really am.
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I DONT REALLY KNOW HOW OT ANSWER THIS QUESTION. I NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT IT BEFORE. I KNOW WHO I AM BECAUSE IM MY OWN PERSON. LIKE EVERYONE I HAVE GOOD TRAITS AND BAD TRAITS. IM A NICE PERSON AND I GET ALONG WITH MANY PEOPLE EXCEPT FOR THE OVERLY CONCIDED ONES, THE FAKES AND THE TWO FACED, O AND THE HATERS!!! NO MATTER HOW LATE I GO TO SLEEP AND HOW EARLY I GET UP I ALWAYS SEEM TO HAVE THIS ENDLESS AMOUNT OF ENERGY AND HYPERNESS, WHICH IS A GOOD TRAIT BECAUSE I AM ALWAYS ENERGETIC. ONE OF MY BEST TRAITS AND MOST STRONGEST TARITS IS THAT IM VERY LOVING AND CARING!! LOVE IS ALL AROUND MY LIFE AND I LOVE IT! I DONT THINK TAHT THERE'S ANYTHING BETTER THAN BEING IN LOVE!! I CARE FOR PEOPLE A LOT TOO. IF THEY NEED HELP IM ALWAYS THERE AN I BELIEVE THAT A GOOD TRAIT. ANOTHER ONE OF MY TRAITS IS THAT IM REALLY SPOILED! MY PARENTS PRETTY MUCH GET ME ANYTHING I WANT MOSTLY MY DAD THOUGH. ITS GREAT BUT IM NO TSURE IF THATS A BAD TARIT OR A GOOD ONE. SOME OF MY BAD TRAITS ARE THAT I HAVE LITTLE PAITENCE FOR THINGS, AND I GET ANNOYED REALLY EASILY!!!! IM NOT REALLY SURE THAT ALL THESE TRAITS MAKE ME WHO I AM BUT I DO HAVE THEM. FOR ALL OF THE TRAITS I MENTIONED I THINK I GOT THIS WAY BECAUSE OF THE WAY I WAS RAISED, MY ENVIRONMENTS, MY FRIENDS, AND MY ENEMIES. I THINK EVERYONE GETS A CERTAIN WAY BECAUSE OF THEIR SURROUNDINGS AND THE PEOPLE AROUND THEM. OVER THE PAST TWO YEARS OF HIGHSCHOOL I HAVE CHANGED. I GOT MORE MATURE AND I DONT REALLY TAKE ANYTHING FOR GRANTED BECAUSE I'VE LEARNED MANY THINGS THAT PERTAIN TO THAT. I'VE GROWN UP AND IM MORE ON A MATURE LEVEL WITH PRETTY MUCH A LOT OF THINGS. I STILL LIKE TO HAVE FUN THOUGH AND ACT SILLY ONCE IN A WHILE. I DO ANTICIPATE FOR BIG CHANGES IN THE FUTURE. CHNAGES FOR THE BETTER AND NEVER THE WORSE! IM PRETTY SATISFIED WITH WHO I AM NOW SO I DO LIKE WHO I AM. I NEVER REALLY HTOUGHT BAOUT THIS QUESTION IN THE PAST NOR WAS I PROBALLY GOING TO EVER COME ACROSS IT BUT AS FOR THE PAST I ALWAYS LIKED WHO I AM AND I STILL DO. EVERYONE HAS LITTLE GLITCHES AND FLAWS THAT COULD BE FIXED BUT OVERALL OF THAT I DO LIKE WHO I AM!!
TO BE REAL I CANT EXPLAIN WHO I AM MAYBE ITS BECAUSE I REALLY HAVENT THOUGHT ABOUT IT. I AM A A COOL LAID BACK TYPE OF PERSON YOU KNOW I AM THE TYPE OF PERSON WHO WOULD RATHER LET THINGS COME TO ME, RATHER THE ME GOING TO GO AND GET IT BUT I WOULD IF I REALLY HAD NO OTHER CHOICE. FREASHMAN YEAR I WAS LIKE A LOSE CANNON ALMOST I DID EVERYTHIG BUT THE RIGHT THING AT TIMES BUT NOW THAT I HAVE GOT OLDER I JUST DONT ACT THE WAY I USE TO ANY MORE I TAKE THING SERIOUS NOW.IN THE FUTURE I EXPECT TO DO BIG THINGS LIKE GOING TO COLLAGE AND MEETING NEW PEOPLE.
P.S SORRY FOR TURNING THIS IN LATE MS. B
personally i look at my self and see a funnny, outgoing, smart at times, and fun person. I belive ive got to be like this from my parents and the friends i hang out with. When you are always around the same people it tends to rub off on you. Since ive had the same friends for a long long time ive gone from being shy, quiet, and laydback to being outgoing, upbeat, and some what loud. To me that was a improvement id rather be outgoing then layed back and letting opertunitys pass by me. Also i think i really have changed since freshman year. I feel like at the start of freshman year i was not who i really was like i didnt open up but since freshman year i feel like ive opened up drematically and i can say im really who i really am. In the future i hope to change but only for the better. I mean to me i feel like life is boring with out change. Change is what keeps like fun to me atleast. I really dont know what changes im going to have in the future but i sure hope there good. Finally i feel that i havnt always liked who i was because i didnt let my self express who i really am fully. i would some what steer away from being "me", But now thats totally different i am myself and i love it!
well i know most of the girls in this school ( OAK) will say either one of two things. "im not your average teenage girl" orr " im just your average teenage girl" and for me i would definatly go with the first one and i mean that with everything i have. somethings about me that make me a little different from most girls is that i dont really care how people feel about me. i cant say that in entirety but for the most part thats how i feel. i wear what i want; talk how i want and do what i want regaurdless on how people will judge me. besides that im a pretty nice person i can be mean at times but its usually for a reason. and one of the most common "traits" people know me for is my crazy & random-ness. ok well i cant think of any other traits right now but im pretty sure i know why i am the way i am. i can honestly say that most of my traits are from my mom. shes pretty crazy & fun like me too. also the situations i have been in make me the way i am and change my outlook on life. i definatly did change alot so far since highschool. last year i was pretty lazy with all my work and i was more focused on boys and other unimportant things like that. i always was a lot more immature then my usual immature level now. =] lol this year i had to take things more seriously because i realized how serious my education is and how it can effect me in the long run. im more focused on my work and not really worried about the male species. =P im sure i will change alot in the future. some people dont like change but personally ; i do. i think its what makes the world go `round. i like who i am this point in my life. ofcourse i have my faults but its what makes me ME so yeah i like myself lol. i havent always liked who i am because theres been times where i`ve done things that i dont like at all. but ive moved past that and im living in the nowwwww. =]
For me, this question took a lot of extra thought…I tend not to think in normal terms…words and whatnot...usually when I think about things, I come up with an emotion as a conclusion and leave it at that, rather than breaking a situation down into little bite-sized pieces, and in relation to the question at hand...I would say I know who I am because I know how I feel about myself…but the more I thought about it the more I realized that I’d never really taken the time to think of it. So here it is, here’s what I’ve come up with in the past week: I am a good person. I try my best to be fair to others. I am honest and open- about myself, and to new things- and I am genuinely sweet. I am strong willed and always have been. I will stand up for what I believe in at any price. I do not regret anything, because at one point, I know it was exactly what I wanted. I am a trustworthy and loyal friend- I want people to be themselves around me, whatever that means for the individual, and I want people to be able to tell me anything and know that I wont judge you or turn around and tell other people. I am not judgmental. I am compassionate, and I will do anything to help people who genuinely need it. I love easily, but it’s a bit more difficult for me to fall in love. I have an optimistic outlook over all. I can be analytical and think about things thoroughly, but I don’t like to; I think it’s a waste of time and energy in most cases, hence my ditsy nature. I am somewhat spontaneous, and quite random, however its important to me to be a constant in the lives of my friends and the people I care about (by that I mean I want to be someone whom you know will be there no matter what, someone you can call in the middle of the night, just kinda someone who you know isn’t going anywhere, but rather will grow and change with you and accept whatever changes come of it) I like to be around people, but sometimes I just need time to myself. Independence is very important to me, but by the same token, I don’t like to be alone. I also realize that I am a bit of a contradiction.
On the less favorable side, when I find myself in a difficult situation, I go in to fight or flight mode, and generally I just run from whatever it is. I am ambitious, but tend to be manipulative when people get in the way of what I want- so far it’s been my parents and church people. I have trust issues, but more so with guys. I don’t trust guys at all, and I don’t know that I ever will be able to…if they want to be friends with me, they have to work really hard to show me that they deserve it (gay guys are kind of an exception), and although I know this isn’t fair and I know that for the most part, this comes from my biological father (who was never there for me and always made promises that he could not or would not keep) but I’ve tried to change it, simply because it isn’t fair, and so far I haven’t been able to. = [ As for how I got the way I am, I think it has a lot to do with the way I grew up. My mom was the only person who was there for me really growing up, so naturally I picked up a lot of her personality, and then as I grew up I weeded out the things I saw in her that I didn’t like and replaced most of them with the opposite…for example, my mother trusted my father over and over again over a period of 17 years and I don’t trust him at all, and haven’t for many years. Some of my personality comes from watching my friends and other family member and picking out things about them that I didn’t like, and making sure I didn’t turn into that. And yes, of course I’ve changed since freshman year. My first year of high school, I was way more humble than I am now. I also considered myself a Christian and schoolwork was like my life. Everything was one extreme or the other, and I wasn’t happy, not with myself, with my life, any of it, because I was living a lie and I knew it. Over the summer, I met one of my best friends, came out to my mom and found what it is I truly believe in. Now I have way more confidence in my dreams, and myself. And I care waayyy less what others think of me. So over the past two years I’ve grown up a lot and I’ve learned a lot about myself and about life, but I know that I have a lot more to learn. I do anticipate change in my future, because I am a student not only of academia, but also of life, and for me that means that I will be ever changing. As for right now, I do like who I am, I’m not perfect, but I am Sarah Brockenberry, and that’s all I need to be, but that hasn’t always been the case, I used to hate who I was, mostly because I let others define who I was supposed to be, and that never works out well.
This is honestly a pretty hard question for me to answer becuase i have a pretty low self esteem about myself. However the few things i do like is my mind, i really like how i think. Im unique to most people in that way becuase i have a lot of morals in my life that most people would probably think are hard to do. My imagintaion is also creative. I really like to write my mind just takes me when i start. Same goes for drawing. I also dont act like a normal girl, im more like a guy, but that makes me unique too. i dont know how i became like this, im guessing my childhood, since i always wanted to be like my big brother. I changed alot over the last 2 years becuase ive matured alot. This is becuase mostly all my bestfriends are seniors or college level students. I dont know about any changes in my future im not one for chnage, but usually when it happens its for the better. Right now, i kind of like who i am, maybe not reallyon the outside but on the outside i like my thoughts alot. I dont really know about all of the things that are going on right now in my life, but you have to take the good with the bad, and smile with the sad, right ?
What made me who I am? That's a hard question considering I never really sat down to think about who am I really. You can describe me as a quiet, athletic girl who is easy to get along with and love to be different from everybody else. I think I got this way from things that happen around me, things that I see and hear on t.v, and also people in school. For an example, everytime you look mon the news you hear about people getting shot or stabbed for no reason or maybe a real stupid reason. At school you see people fighting for something stupid. In school you also see alot of people that is fake. See I don't have time for drama. That's why I am always so quiet or you don't see me talking to alot of people. Cause I have learned especially since I have been in high school that like I said there is alot of fake people that will turn on you in a minute that's why I don't trust anybody I have learned to depend on myself at all time. I do not anticipate to have big changes in the future because Im cool with the way I am. Im always going to be me. I like how I am. Actually I have always like how I am cause I don't usually cause no drama and usually im not in no drama not unless I really have to be in it.
Who is Amber Cruse? This question makes me really sit here and wonder. I don't want tp sit here and bore myself with triats like caring, loving, honest blablabla. The reason behind this is because I already know that I contain all these traits. I always wonder what people would say about me if I wasn't there. You know how you may ask a question like "do you know mrs.bunje?" and another person would say "the tall lady with the long auburn hair? She's nice, yep I know her.... I always wonder what someone would honestly say if they said do you know Amber Cruse. Now I have to ask myself this question (self, who am i?) I'm sensitive. It's not always that evident, but I am. If one of my friends were to move or something, I'd take it really hard. If my mom seriously yelled at me, I'd cry because of that before I'd cry because of her hitting me. I'm usually only sensitive to the ones I am close to because if I saw someone in the hallway and they yelled at me, I would definitely be first to yell back. I am smart. Actally, I would like to re-phrase that. I am intelligent. Anyone could be smart and say 1+1=2. I am intelligent, I know much more than basic knowledge. I use that to my advantage. I tend to strive for the best. I try my hardest to get good grades and I am hard on myself when it comes to grades. A lot of people's parents are hard on them, which drives them to good grades. My parents have never put me down over a grade. I do this for myself. I know no one else will do anything for me so I have to do it myself. Ihave to push myself because if I was depending on someone else, then they were gone, who would I have? I guess this is showing me that I am also independent.I am very secure with myself. I also hate blending in with the crowd. I guess this is showing me that i like attention. Only positive attention though. I want to hear a big crowd say "Amber's really smart. or Amber's really pretty" Not "amber's a ho." I am very confident with who I am as a person. This is the exact reason whuy I love people that hate me. I honestly don't go around starting stuff, so for someone to not like me takes a lot, usually a lot of jealousy. I personally think it's cute. I like feeling good about myself. I wasn't the same person freshman year either. I was an annoying girl who "swore up and down" she was cute. I was ok, but not all that. That's how I acted and I don't know why. I have changed because I am way more mature. I realize I am a mature girl. I am down to earth and easily get along with people. The only time I wouldn't like someone is if they have an attitud like they are "better than thou". That annoys me because I know that's how I used to be freshman year. I love who I am as of now, but it wasn;t always this way. When I was younger I swear I thought I was ugly. I had a really low self-esteem. I never wanted to take pictures or anything. i'm glad that I grew out of that stage though. As of now, what go me here? My mom and friends influence me on who I am. I follow my mom but lead my friends. Thus is why I am a nice all around person. My mom is too. I honestly don't discriminate people, I'm always shaking someone's hand that i don't know, introducing myself to them. I am outgoing. One this I've learned about myself, I can be very impatient. I dont like freshmen because they are too immature and annoying. They try fitting in too much and it reminds me of myself freshman year. I swore i was so fresh and cute, when i was straight, but i needed to relax. No body's all that. For the future, I just want to be more involved with church. I wabt to take time to focus on God. I love who I am though. I haven't always, but I am learning who I am. I am Amber Cruse, "that pretty, smart girl that goes to oakcrest. She's brownskin, skinny, funny?" (That's what i would want someone to desribe me as)I have never thought I was perfect, however, I do realize I'm an all-around great oerson to e around. That me. I m who I am. Take it or move.
who am i? i here this question alot and my one and only answer to this question is i am Kevin moulden, im a easy person to get along with, many say i have a nice personalty,also love sports since i got to oakcrest i have matured alot and i learned that you cant folow a crowd you got to walk your own path. so to conclude these very simple and feww things make me who i am.
who am i? i here this question alot and my one and only answer to this question is i am Kevin moulden, im a easy person to get along with, many say i have a nice personalty,also love sports since i got to oakcrest i have matured alot and i learned that you cant folow a crowd you got to walk your own path. so to conclude these very simple and feww things make me who i am.
I have changed DRASTICALLY since my freshman year; who I am as a person, who I hang out with, what I was doing with my life. the list could go on. high school as a whole changes people. its shown me to be careful of what I say to people because ANYBODY can ease drop into a conversation, twist words, and turn the situation that was being said into something totally opposite, but "juicy" for the thirsty gossipers. through personal experiences, I've been able to learn how to defend myself, speak my mind, analyze people and figure out their true colors, I know that teachers can be my worst enemies, your haters are your biggest fans, girls are caniving (sp?), boys are deceiving, and best friends understand you the most. but mind you, that was a simplified list of what I've learned. when I'm around my BEST friends, I'm able to be my crazy retarded burnt out self and I'm accepted for it. I know how to be civilized with authority, AND I know how to shut people down when they need to be to shut them up and let them know what it is. being in high school has also matured me. I dont feel 15/16 and I dont act it either. I've ALSO heard that I dont look it :] but thats besides the point. as I get older, I learn to deal with things easier. friendships, relationships, school work, course selections, jobs. the real world is a scary place, but when the time comes, I think I'll be ready because I'm dang near ready now. I LOVE who I am. I wouldnt wanna change it in any way, shape, or form. but I didnt always liked who I was. I used to think I was ugly, honestly, and when I say that to people they be thinking that I'm lying because I'm "pretty" now so they think I'm just saying it to get attention or compliments. I'm not lying though. I didnt like how I looked back in the day. I didnt like how I acted either. It didnt take me until later in life to realize what I used to do was gonna lead me down a road with no definite happy ending if it continued. I dont like to regret things, I just take them as learning experiences, and trust me, I have indeed learned my lesson. I am who I am and people are gonna have to start excepting that. I change for no living being. what you see is what you get and thats it. take it or get out my face :]
This is kind of a hard question for me to answer,i question who i am all the time. if i think about it. this is a question that really makes my mind wander.i believe that no one person is original.everyone wants to be different and stand out but to me we all blend in, in some way or another. we all want to love and be loved. we want to have friends and family to care for us and help us. we all want and need the same things. its all on different levels of course. i mean there's always going to be people who want more and need less but everyone still is similar to everyone even if they think they arent. i am a smart girl and a strong willed person but i dont show it like i should. i compare myself to other people and what they have instead of just being satisfied with what i have. i dont truly hate anyone. i dont think that i ever could. i am one of the most honest people you could ever meet. i would never do anything intentionally to hurt someones feeling in any way. i think lying is one of the worst things anyone can do in their life becuase it doesnt solve anything or make anything better. i am a thinker. i am an emotional train wreck. im friendly. im well mannered. im well taught. i try but not always hard enough. gulable. neutral. nervous. i bite my nails. im a cluts. im random. i ramble. i confuse myself. i think before i speak. mostly. i cry alot. im loud. i tend to love everyone. i let things get to me when i know i shouldnt. everything means something to me. im a procrastinator. i write in a journal alot to keep my thoughts somewhere else. i tend to have my mind running wild thinking about everything 24-7. i expect the worst of things instead of just letting things roll and expecting nothing but positive things. im very dependent on other people, i want to become more of an independent person someday. i think that im a mix of everything thats in my life. i myself am apart of the people i meet and the places i go. all throughout my life there is always someone teaching me something new and theres always someone new to talk to. if it wasnt for my friends and family and the people that surrond me today i wouldnt be the amanda lee thats typing this right now. as a freshman in high school i hated it. i have changed alot. im a much more calm and relaxed. im more of a funner person. i am a bold and beautiful person. everything changes in my life and just like everything i change things in my life. as i grow up theres going to be new people and places in my life that affect me and what i do. the person i am now i dont think i will fully be when im an adult. being a teenager to me is about figuring out who you are and what you want in life. i have ideas of what i want but im sure they will change as i get older. i am a mature young lady and i know that when im older i will get the concept of things easier than i do now. when i was younger i was shy and quiet and now im the opposite and i love it.i dont think that anyone truly does ever know who they are becuase theres so many influentional things in our lives that complete us that we dont have the time for ourselves to think about it and notice it. i know that thats how i feel. i love myself and i love who i am ..but i do want to be more independent and less worried. everything happens for a reason and i am the way i am for a reason.
i am a person with 2 personalities we could say not that im two faced and all but i have 2 different moods of who i am.i can be one happy person at once and be cool with everyone living life and everything but then again it could change and i could be upset,and sad thats when everything goes wrong.what could make me thins way is for thinking alot.i just think too much about everything.like what if i do something weather right or wrong what would evryone else thinks thats what i do i worry too much i mean over the board too much.in school to be honest i changed alot it was always me getting in trouble to me learning on grade wise its still the same like things that happen outside of school i think about in school and it affects me from doing good sometimes if not i try my best to leave it out my mind ill do good but it just always come back.i want to do alot of things in the future i want to be a nurse,and make good money to help my mom and just be responsible to all my responsabilities.Sometimes yeah i like who i am but then i think of who really am i and im just sharrisse i am a good person but with 2 personalities.
well let me start off by saying this being me is all i can do.people that i have known for years always tell me the same thing you grew but you are still the same.i mean i have matured alot over the years but i am still the same kid in the inside you know.but the thing that makes me who i am is just letting it all out isay what ever is on my mind.people tend to think that i am some type of a comedian but its in my nature i ove to make people laugh the funny faces, jokes,and smart comments aren't for me only i do it because there is always somebody listening i feel that every time i open my mouth that i will be heard by one or all.but my level of maturity definetly changed me from being a freshman til now i mean i was a loose cannon walking in that school metaphorically speaking.but now i am a full time student/father trying to be everything that i said i was going to be.....successful.i have the same goal/dreams now that i had since about 7th grade i am going to graduate then i am going to get my master's degree in pharmasutical im not sure if i spelled that right but who cares.then from college i am going to be a well paid pharmacist looking and laughing at those who laughed at me and my dreams.but over all i love who i am and i thank god everyday for him blessing me with my talents looks and even being alive because i almost died about three times before and during my birth.but thats why im josh Delavlle that kid you just cant forget.
We're always finding ourselves. It's like one of those unattainable goals. We are constantly finding new things out about ourselves. Most of us get into the habit of seeking for what we WANT to be, and who everyone else wants to be, that we loose track of who we REALLY ARE. I try not to let that happen. I try not to get side-tracked. I have changed dramatically since middle school(not just high school), and I thank God for it every day! I do not even enjoy looking back on those three years of my life because I just had such a horrible attitude towards life. I constantly took things for granted, I thought I had it so badly. But now it is safe to say that I have done a complete 360. I love my life, and I now realize that not everything can go the way I want it, when I want it. I am a happy, appreciative, loving individual, but everyone has their bad days. I am very shy when you first meet me, but once you get to know me and become a better friend to me- you will be extremely surprised at the change. With my friends I am very outgoing and funny. But at school most of the time I just keep to myself. I think this has a lot to do with transferring over also. I do not know that many people. Oakcrest is so much bigger then my old school, St. Joe. (hard to believe, I know) I have changed a lot over these past two years. I have experienced new things, and made wonderful new friends. Your friends influence who you are, so if you hang out with the right crowd- you're alright... and I think im doing alright =) Another of my characteristics is that I do not trust people easily. I can go into a whole 2 page description of why and that whole chapter in my life, but I will choose not to for now. I would much rather focus on the present, then dwell on the past. I think everyone gets to be the way they are by the environment that that particular individual grew up in. I can honestly say that I have seen, and been around things that no one should ever experience... but horrible experiences make me as a person realize how good I have it compared to some other people in this world. Those experiences make me totally and completely thankful for everything I have, and am. I have a better understanding of the world because of it. Most people view me as the 'dumb blonde surfer chick.' Yes I am a 'chick' and I surf... but that does not mean I smoke weed. (typical stereotype of surfers) and actually, I am not dumb at all! I am adverageing A's in most of my classes. I accept who I am as an individual, and I am finally happy with it. I haven't always been happy with me, and those were some pretty hard years. But after a lot of time, experience, and thought I finally realized that my goal in life is NOT to try and please everyone else. If they do not like who I am, or how I am... that is their problem- not mine. I can't wait to see what the future brings... what changes, people, and places. So far; I love where I am in life- I just can't wait to see where I will end up. =)
This question or questions made me think of how I was in my past. And by my past I mean since I graduated from 8th grade. That special momment where you get called out and walk towards the principles and them giving you a hand shake of open opportunities saying, "Congratulations and good luck in high school!" My expectations of high school where new friends ,more parties ,and lots of fine boys that are older than me. But when I arrived to Oakcrest high school as a freshman with sophmore booyfriend it began more strict and more drama. I spended all of my freshman days arguing and crying over him. Until I put it to a stop and things were done with me and him. At that day December 9th ,2005 I began a new journey to get to know myself and to reinstore that high school time and make the expectations I had turn to reality. Thats when I became a party girl. Every party that was mentioned Mairym was there. Every single chance I got to talk to a boy I would take it. Then I met the love of my life that I'm no longer with. It was May 26,2006 the end of freshman year. I entered my sophmore year with a men who was 17 going on 18 years old. No drama, no excuses, no arguments. Until my sweet 15 where all of my exs or I should say the boys I use to talk to came. Thats when the arguments and fights began. Many tears dropped and hearts broken.We decided to let time do its thing and go our separate ways and if we were meant for each other we will be together. And now I stand single and proud. No drama, no boys, and no arguments. Just a girl who looked for God. And asked for forgiveness and a new chance to start over. A girl who completely lived her life as a stranger to herself and now she knows who she is and her purpose of existince. I am a girl who serves the lord. I am a girl who does not desire to party or get drunk. I am a girl who only wants to live in peace. I am a girl who wants "akunamatata it means no worries for the rest of your days its a problem free philosophy." And with that I leave you. You can judge me by how I dance. You can judge me by how I dress. You caqn judge me by how I talk. But You judge me by who I am because you don't know. God and me only knows.
i think i am very funny, outgoing, polite when i want to be, and a hole bunch more. i really don't think i have changed much in the past 2 years besides that i have calmed down on my loudness and i am taking my work a little less serious. and i feels thought that i am going to be crazy when i grow up because i can never get out of the house. but all in all i love who i am just because of the fact that i can not be coppied. i think i started to find out that i love myself when i starte to have fun whit my life in eighth grade.
I think that somebody has an idea of who they are no matter what it is or if you are not sure but it is an idea. Iam a person who is out there. Make a person smile when they are down, making them laugh for just because, im outgoing, funny, smart, and on time when i really put my mind to it. I dont really think i have change other than learning how to live and not dwell over the worries. I also learn that i am able to have my consequences with my actions. I knew these things but i didnt put them in regaurd to my life. But i think that was something that made me the nydia that iam now because i have grown alot. I really just anticipate on graduating high school and getting into my career as a buisness owner. So i think the nydia has grown into the nydia iam now!
Well some things that make me who i am would be my sense of humor because all my friends like when im around because i make them laugh. They also like that im not afraid to express myself and i also like that about myself because i never let nobody put me down. I'm my own person. I think that i'm the way i am because my mother. She's the exact same way and she always told me that if smeones doing something to you that you know isn't right let them know. Every since i was little i was the same way. The only way i've changed over the past years is instead of speaking your mind in a negative way do it postive. Just because someones doing something you dont like instead of me yelling and using obsence words i flow with it. What i mean by saying that is that i tell them why i dont think what thier doing is right and i explain some ways of making it better. I love who i am and i dont ever want to change because im me because of me.
My traits are that i am a kid who plays around and messis with people and his friends. I dont know when to stop sometimes. The only time that i am seriouse is when i am angry or sad. I am emotional to somethings. I allways look at the worst thing that could happen. I think i got these traits from hanging with my dad and my brother. When are like triplets. I changed a little bit. I use to be kind of immature about things. I like how i was sometimes. I hate that sometime i regret the things i do or say. I try not to say things i thing. but i do anyways.
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