"But I swear it wasn't me! I didn't do it!"
Have you ever been falsely accused of something? Talk about a time this may have happened to you, either at the hands of friends, family or other loved ones. What were the circumstances? Why did he/she/they accuse you? Did you defend yourself or just take the heat?
posted by Bunje at 11/14/2006 10:33:00 PM
91 Comments:
Yea, i have been accused of something that i didnt do. it was this one time when i was younger and i was at my cousins house when we were playin truth or dare. my cousin dared her friend to call the cops and she did on the house phone. so the cops were at her house in 10 minutes , they all blamed it on me, i told my aunt that it wasnt me but it didnt matter, i was the youngest. i had to go upstairs and think about what i did while everyone else got to play.
yes, i have been accused something i didnt do.one instance would have to be when i was accused of takin ten dollars that was on the table, it belonged to my mom,and i had said outloud who does this money belong to.and my mom said they were hers so i left it there.than towards the nighttime they were missing when she went to look for them.I got blamed,and she called me a liar when i tryed to defend myself.well i knew it wasnt me and tryed to convince her i didnt take it.because im not the type of person to steal.but when my grandmother got home and heard about what happened she had told my mother that she had saw the ten dollars on the floor and put it in her room.so my mom felt dumb and i was satisfied
Well, about a week ago I came on the bus and the driver demanded to see my ID. I did not know what to make of this but I kindly handed over my ID figuring she just needed my name or something. After stopping and preparing to leave the bus the driver announced that there had be a lot of writing on the seat and that, Joe B, was getting in trouble for it. I stood up outraged and insisted that I had not done it. At which point the driver responded sarcastically, "Yea I guess no one did it."
I was pretty mad and figured I had nothing to lose so I responded, "Obviously someone wrote on there if there are drawings"
Before she could even respond the new vice principal boarded the bus. She took pictures of the seat, I guess if you give anyone a camera they feel like CSI Oakcrest. I looked at the people I knew had done it and tried to tell them with my eyes to not give themselves in. The situation was handled wrong and I knew my dad would not let me get in trouble. So I was damn determined to fight the system and win because I knew what they were doing was borderline illegal. However someone fearing that they would get in trouble ratted and once again let the teachers use fear to scare kids into ratting out their friends.
I hate school sometimes ><.
Last year in math class i was accused of cheating on a test. I had Mrs. Rosen for Algebra B. We were taking a test and i was sitting in front of this other girl that was named Danielle too. Well I didn't know that she was looking over my shoulder to see my answers, but apparently my teacher thought that i was giving her the answers to our test. The teacher took both of our papers and I was so upset. Something like this had never really happenned to me before, and the last thing that I needed was a 0 on a math test because math really does not come easy to me. After class i talked with Mrs. Rosen about my side of the story and how I was completely oblivious to the fact that Danielle was cheating off my test. I was SO happy that she let me finish the rest of the test in study hall the next day...and I ended up getting an A=)
Honestly, who hasn't been falsely accused of something? I know I have. Well, one time, not long ago, a group of seven, including myself, were accused of cutting class and perfoming acts of insubordination. I can tell you that I never get in trouble, EVER, and I would never cut class because I am too scared that i would get caught. He told us that in order to get out of trouble, we would have to rat someone out. None of us would budge. He said that we had until the end of the day to confess or else we would each get an inschool suspension. while in the state of panic, my friend Brittany and I were planning a time to come and tell him the truth. We decided to meet him at the end of the day, right after twelvth period. While rushing to my next period class, I saw you (Ms.Bunje). Brittany and I asked you what we should do, and you told us just to tell. So we went to find him, and we couldnt find him. So I went to get my pass signed because I was late already, and on my way to my next class, here he comes walking up right next to me. He pulled me aside and asked me to explain to him about what had happened. I told him everything. Then he asked me if we had learned our lessons, and I had told him yes. I got us all out of an inschool. Now I will always stay right next to the class and never leave their side.
Its happened to me so many times. But the one that most sticks out is when my mom's friend said that I took her Ipod, because it went missing in my room. My friends mom and her kids were staying with us for alittle while, and because the daughter was staying in my room, we had to share everything. So anyways, the Ipod went missing and my mom, my mom's friend, and my mom's friend's daughter all ganged up on me and told me that it was me. So they made me, tear my room appart looking for the stupid ipod, and then when my mom moved my nightstand, she found it next to the wall. I didn't speak to my mom for a week, infact I'm still upset that she ganged up on me, when she's my mom and she's soppused to protect me. But, I'm glad to say that the only two people who deffended me was my little brother timmy(because he know's me like the back of his hang) and my dad(because great minds think alike) But, needless to say, i sucks alot to be accussed of somethign you didnt do.
Ok, a few years ago, there was a girl,about two years younger then me, on my bus who thought she was "cool". Well one day she came on the bus and this kid was picking on her constatnly. He was saying some pretty harsh things. But no one stuck up for her because she did the samething to everyone else. So, I guess you would call it karma. She was crying so hard that she couldnt breathe right. When it was our turn to get off the bus she ran home. Then, i was walking home and her mother came after me saying very racist things to me. She threaten me and my mother, which wasnt even there to defend herself. I kept sticking up for myself and my mother but i was walking even faster when she pulled a knife on me. So i was the blame because i live close to her.
It happen in October when I got it to a fight and the tried to say that I hit my teacher but I didnt. And she ended up going to the hospital. So they was tring to send me to the board of education to see if I was allowed back into the school or not. But, as you can see I didn't get into much trouble and they let me back into school.
Yes that has happened to me. I remeber it. I was in Orlando for vaction with my frined and we were walking around Universal Studios and we decided to go into this store. She ended up stealing something....apparently a few things. Before we new it we were getting picked up by three security guards. They brought us to teh security base. And said they we were both in trouble because she stole and I didnt stop her so I was an accomplice...How rediculous. So I was accussed of stealing. I was upset taht someone would accuse me of doing somethine I was so much against.
Yeah I was accused of somethin that i didn't do i remeber like it was just yesterday. It was a day before my birthday this year and and 4 days before my party and my cousin and them had gotten into a promblem on the activity bus and i was there. While they were arguing i was tryin to break it up so they wouldn't get into trouble and then wanna of the girls had said that i got into the promblem and i was so pissed. Then the girls mom had called my mom and said that i said that i was goin to cut her and punch her in the face when i didn't even say that. My mom began to snap and yell and i was like i didn't even say that and at first my mom didn't believe me and started to decide to cancle my party i began to cry cause i was so upset of being accused of sayin that. The next day we had talked about it and the girl admitted she was lying and my mom was glad i was telling the truth so i was able to keep my party i was so happy! Now my mom knows to believe me when i say i wasn't in the promblem.
Yes, one time me and my friend Chris were sitting on my porch and these people that live across the street from me (who really dont like us) starting to walk towards us very fast almost like a jog. It was a woman and a man and once they got to my house they started to yell at us loudly. All the were saying was "why did you do that?" "do you think it is funny or something, cause it isnt at all" all we could think of was are these people crazy and what were they talking about. When they were finally done talking to us we asked what they were talking about. They replied very loudly "you through eggs, snowballs and rasberries at our windows" and we said we did'nt. The only reason they didnt believe us is because we have had a problem with them before.Once me and my friend chris skateboarded on there porch and they came out yelling, telling us to stop but we kept doing it, so this is why they strongly believed it was us. So they called my parents and told them and my parents believed them because they knew about the incident with me and chris skateboarding on there porch. I got grounded for about a week and he got grounded for about a week and a half. We tried to defend ourselves and they just kept interupting us so then we just about had it, so we just told them to leave and we just walked in my house. And that was that.
yes,i have been accused of something that i didn't do. it was when me and ma friend was walkin home this girl came up to me and asked me if i was taking bout her cousin when i wasn't. i told no me and your cousin are cool peoples and that i would have never take about your cousin.then we got into this huge fight then her friends had jumped in. they thought that i was called the girls' cousin gay when i really didn't. so now we don't take to one another or watever. but it's done wit and it's watever.
Back in the day, like two weeks ago, my sister decided to sleep over her boyfriends house. She was supposed to be sleeping at her friends house that night. Eventually my parent's found out that she slept at her boyfriends house. However, instead of just blaming melanie for her mistake she punished me too. She said I put her in danger. I defended myself saying how it was her choice and I couldn't stop her. I was wrongfully blamed for Melanie's decision.
YES OF COURSE THAT HAPPENES TO EVERYONE IF IT DOESNT THEN UR NOT HUMAN..BUT IT WAS A TIME WHEN I WAS YOUNGER AND AT MY COUSIN HOUSE..I WAS ACCUSED OF SAYIN THE F BOMB AND OF COURSE WHEN UR LIKE SIX THATS A BIG DEAL.BUT THEN TOLD ON ME BECUZASE OF SOURDE WE WERE YOUNG AND THATS ALL YOU DO ND I GOT IN TROUBLE EVEN THOUGH I PLEADED THAT I DIDNT SAY IT
Yeah, ive had that happen to me quite a few times, mostly on account that the most rebellious and uncooperative of all my dad's side of the family. It was a few years back in the summer, when i was about 10. All my cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents, brother, sister, dad, and me were getting ready to go to a water park. We were about ready to leave and all parents told us to get into the frontroom so they could speak to us. Once we were all there, they told us that one of us messed up the downstairs bathroom and we weren't going to the water park till that person came foward and cleaned it up. All 8 of us just looked at the parents with dumbfounded looks and they walked out of the frontroom and went upstairs. One by one the parents came into the room asking who did it. Eventually, my grandpa came into the room and started interrogating us and trying to make the person who did it feel bad by saying stuff how theyre ruining the day. He left the room saying i have a pretty good idea who it was that did it and gave a nasty glare to me. Life sucks being the trouble maker of the family.
YEA I HAVE BEEN. IT WAS THIS PAST WEEK AND MY MOM BOUGHT MY SISTER THESE PENS. I WASNT HOME WHEN SHE HAD THEM. SHE PUT THEM AWAY AND THAT'S WHEN I GOT HOME. SHE WAS MISSING THEM AND TOLD MY MOM I TOOK IT BECAUSE SHE WASN'T TALKING TO ME. THEN MY MOM KEPT ASKING ME IF I TOOK THEM AND SHE MADE ME CLEAN OUT MY PURSE AND BAG TO CHECK IT. OF COURSE SHE DIDN'T FIND IT BECAUSE I DIDN'T HAVE THEM.
i've been accused of a lot of things but one that stands out in particually was when i was accused of cheating on my boyfriend. i "aparently" made out with my friend jeff at this party i went to. unexpectly jeff and i were left only for only a minute until my friend joey came back so everyone assumed we did something because jeff had a crush on me. i deffended myself but people still didnt believe me. it just got worse when the rumor had spread to my boyfriend. i wasnt even sitting near jeff when we were left alone and i would never do that to my boyfriend! thank god he believed me
Yes, I was falsely accused of something. It was when I was little My mom accused me of taking some money off the table that was hers. It wasn't me who took it, it was my sister and I got grounded for it. I tried telling her that, but she didn't believe me.
Well yes there have been times at which I was blamed for something I didn't do. In fact, something like that happened to me like 2 weeks ago. Well it all started out with me and like my whole family having a baby shower for my older sister. By the end of the party everyone had left except for my three cousins. One of them was 15, the other was like 12, and the last one was about 10 or 11. My 17 year old sister was also there. well being the teenagers that we all are, we decided to pick on the youngest one. it was pretty funny but I was completely innocent. Well, that night we all watched The Omen, and uhh, everbody was going to bed and my youngest cousin was sleeping in the living room, my sister and my 12 year old cousin were going to sleep in my sister's room and my other cousin was sleeping in this random empty room in my house. Well that night was all decided to play a few pranks on the little 11 year old. First, i dressed up as a ninja and scared him by like screaming in his face. Then, my sister and my 15 year old cousin came up with a plan to get shaving cream and put it in his hand and get something to tickle his face and the first couple of tries didn't work out because he woke up while the shaving cream was being put into his hand. When my cousin finally got the shaving cream into his hand, we took a straw and tickled his face. Meanwhile i'm hiding behind the couch. He most definitely did smack the shaving cream into his face, but i didn't see where he was and the next thing I knew was that he was right behind me and I ran for my sister's room and pretended i was a asleep like they all did. And I got in trouble for this master plan that my sister and cousin did becasue he thought that I did the whole shaving cream joke. And no I didn't just take the blame I defended myself and made it clear that I didn't do anything and I still got in trouble for not stopping them.
I have gotten accused of something before that I didn't do. One day when I was about ten, my brothers and I went to a birthday party of our friend's. The party was hott, pin the tail on the donkey, hot potato, musical chairs, kareoke. My type of parties at that time. My brothers and I decided to go see the cake because we heard it was designed as the characters of Power Rangers but my smart ass youger brother ran right into the cake. There was cake everywhere. He got scared and throw cake on me and started crying. Yep he framed me. When my mom heard him crying she ran over and saw me with cake in my hands and him on the floor crying. She blamed me for messing up the cake and throwing it on luis. My fun at he party was done. No more jumping party. Till this day I'm still blamed for the cake.
Yes i have been accused of something i didnt do because its impossible to not be when u have younger a younger brother/sister. The other day my sister had left a bunch of her dirty dishes next to the computer. Since my mom is a clean freak, she began to yell at me. I kept on telling her it wasnt me but she didnt believe me. She pritty much forced me to wash them and i was really mad because i hate picking up after other peoples messes especially my sisters. Me and my mom got into a big argument because of those dishes and how shes always blaming me for everything my sisters do. Later my sister told my mom that she was the one who had left the dishes there. But im over it not and i just hope my mom stops complaing so much and will maybe listen to me once in a while.
yea i have been acused of something i didnt do. One day i was over my friend kyles house and are parents are really good friens. so that night they decied to go out. They were out pretty late so i just crashed at klyes house. Before mine or kyles parents go anywere when we have one of our friends over they do a "beer count" well the next morning we woke up to "wake the hell up boys what did you guys do last night"when they got home she counted the beers and she counted 10 when there was 12 to begin with. we looked at each other knowing we both didnt drink that night. After she yelled at us we counted the beer and got 12. we told klyes mom then she counted again and she got 12. so se felt really stupid. then she apoligized for yelling at us.
Yes I was accused of something I didn't do. I always get accused of something whether it's something coming from my mom, brother, or somebody else. When I was about 10 or 11 years old i was accused of starting this fire next door to me in the woods. When i came home from school i went straight to sleep and when i woke up the cops was next door. And the boy that really started the fire said that me and my sister did. So after that i wasnt allowed to step on there property.That is something i was accused of.
Yes, this one time at summer camp they acused me of a threting a staff member. they accused me because i was talking about some one else and they thougt i was talking about the staff member but i wasn't. i tride to defend my self but the adults kept telling me to shut up and let the staff members keep presenting false statements about me. by the adults not letting me tell my side of the story i got very angry and to keep my self from doing something i would realy regret i just took the punishment. i told my friends to never let any one keep you from telling your side of the story and i told them i wouldn't let it happen ever agin.
I have been acused of alot of things, but the most recent one was when i asked my mother to go out with my friends and after alot of begging she finally agreed and let me out i had the best time until i came back home. When i came back home my mother was sitting by the couch and she took one good galnce at me up and down.
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she went up stairs and acused me of smoking weed and drinking which she was wrong i was simply very exausted from going out
it hasent really happend to me but it think its the other way around i always blame my sista for stuff she dident do and i did and i like how it switches like that.
but now the forbidden fruit must be tasted
yeahh i have been accused of something that i didnt so, my brother accused me of taking his money and told my parents what happen and they wouldnt beleave me when i said that i didnt take it. i kept tell them i didnt take it but they just kept saying to me then were is it .. my brother found it in a dirty pair of pants .. and my brother said sorry for saying i took his money and my parents said sorry for not beleaveing me. i was kinda mad at my brother for saying i took his money and at my parents for not beleaving me.
yeah i got in trouble for something i did not do. One time i was watching tv and my mom started yelling at me because she though I did not put my dish in the dish washer. I tried to tell her it was my little sister. But she did not belive me.
Yes I get blamed all the time. My little sister is a trouble maker. She tries to get me in trouble as often as she can. I guess since i'm the oldest I get blamed more often but it's really not fair. My sister told my mom the other day that I broke off the dish washer handle, i really didnt. My mom didnt know who to believe but I told my sister that if she didnt tell my mom the truth I would beat her up. I really didnt mean that but she took it seriously and told my mom the truth. Little sisters are a pain in the butt.
I have been accused of something I didn't do on multiple occasions. From a diiferent perspective, 99% of the time I'm accused of something, I'm the one who did it.Anyway, this one time really grinded my gears. I was in advanced math at old Green Bank School and I borrowed and returned a calculator everyday. Apparently, Mrs. Bartling was convinced I was stealing them and gave me the worst guilt trip ever. I pretty much took the blame but didn't pay a cent.
When I was younger, my sister, Kaitlin and cousin,Ian were upstairs in my house playing in the living room. We decided to watch a movie and listen to it on surround sound. None of us really knew how to work the entertainment system, so taking charge, like I usually do, I started pressing buttons. In my family, I am notorious for breaking things, but this time it really was not me. After my sister and cousin began getting fustrated with me not being able to get it to work right away, they began pressing buttons which eventually broke the system. When my mom was asking who broke it, they blamed it on me. Since they were the same age, I am sure that they figured, "Why not blame it on the oldest one?" I told my mom I didn't do it. And the answer she gave me was one I have been hearing my whole life, "You're the oldest and should be the most responsible one."
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When I was five I was accused of throwing away all of the forks in the kitchen. At that time it was turn to put the dishes away and everyone just figured I threw away all of the forks. Although I knew I didn't throw away the forks no one believed me. When I tried to pleaded my case everyone thought I was lying. Eventually I just agreed with them because there was nothing I could have done at the time to prove I was telling the truth.
When I was younger, I was accuse of stealing my Aunt's glasses. Honestly, they had just HAPPENED to be in my room instead of in the living room where my Aunt stayed the night. I was like 10 so I could hardly defend myself. But then my little brother came in and saw what was going on and explained that he was playing with them in my room (him and I shared a room back in the day). So my mom apologized for yelling at me and my Aunt apologized for accusing me. Ah well, it's over now and my mom and aunt are my bestest friends :D
I've been wrongly accused of many things in my life by family friends and even by strangers. it hurts when your accused of something and you know that without a shrout of a doubt that the others are wrong and not a soul wants to believe you. It's not a good feeling you get when thats the case. Once i went to six flags and my friend (kp)and she had dropped a ketchup cantainer the ketchup flew and landed on some lady. Her husband stood up and took it upon himself to insult me thinking that it must have been that latina girl seated at the table behind theirs . I couldnt help raise my voice right back i implored "sir it wasn't me but im sure it was a mere accident" my friend also nervous as she was gave him a few words but seeing as we were in public and that we didnt even know the guy i swallowed my pride bit my tounge but first i told him his wifes shirt was ugly any way.
I have been accused of doing something that wasn't true. Believe it or not I was accused of cheating on a math test when I was in the 7th grade , when really I wasn't. The teacher made a big scene about in and made me look like a horrible student. Then I had to move my seat and then had to write a letter on my test that I had cheated when I knew I didn't do it so it just got uglier from there. The teacher then went and talked about me in the teachers lounge, and was ruining my reputaion and making a huge lie. When my mother got my test she couldn't believe that she had accused me , but then went and talked about me to the other teachers that I would be having the following year. My mother and I were very taken back and I learned that I had to give it to my mother's hands and let her take over because I couldn't do anything. But yea I figured out that I'm not like that and to stick up for yourself and don't let something get by if you know that you didn't do something that someone has accused you of.
I was once was accused of doing something that I didnt do! I was about 9 years old, and my Dad was replacing the windows. He had the new ones sittng out on the back patio, leaning up against the house. Now, i dont know who did it, but someone(most likely one of my brothers) decided to smash it with a bat. Whoever did it did a great job because there wasn't a piece bigger then a penny left! Now, when my Dad got home from work he assumed that I did it, and I was yelled at for about three hours. I tried explaining that it wasn't me and he said somtething like "Yeah Whatever." So I still have the feeling that he still thinks that I broke that window, but I DIDN'T!!!
Ah , yes , of course I've been accused of something that I didn't pertake in . It has/will happen to everyone at least once in their lives . I tend to defend my self at first , but if my parents/friends/teachers aren't believing me , I just give up and take the heat . I never really put up a fight . One time , last year , my mom's favorite Christmas decorations were shattered out in the shed , because someone had tripped over the box . According to her it was all my fault , even though I'm never back there . I put up a little bit of a fight , then as usual , gave up and took the heat . The next day my brother confessed to doing it by accident , she then appologized . But I still hate acusations .
One of the times that I have been falsely accused of something happened this year. I was in class and I was listening to the teacher explain the rules for the day and then one of my friends said something that shouldn't be said in school. The teacher heard where it came from and my friend happened to sit near me so any one in the vicinity could have been accused.Then, the teacher asked "Who said that?" Of course, no one confessed, but I knew who it was. So the teacher came over to my area of the class room and told me to stay after class. I was shocked. I didn't say a single word and I got blamed for it. So the whole class period, I was telling my friend that he should turn himself in because, for one, I didn't say anything. Second, I didn't want the teacher to think I was a bad kid, since it was only a few days into the school year. In the end, everything worked out and I didn't get into any trouble.
yeah,ive been accused of alota things ugh. My brother little brother blamesa alotta things on me this one time me and him where playing psp and we had to of themn and we were playing like togather and he got madd and broke it over his head and told my parents i did it so i just took the heat for it and this happene middle of summer and i was suppose to pay to have it fixed psssh that still hasnt happened Nor is it going too
When hasn't a situation like this happened to an individual. I've had many encounters where i get blamed for something I didn't do but there was one particular incident that hurt me the most. It was summer time a week before the hammonton carnival and I slept over one of my closest friends house, Dichera. We had been good friends since we were young. I hadn't seen her in months so i was excited to see her it was the day after i wasn't so excited about. I had left my cell phone at her house so I had to go back the next day. I was expecting another happy hello but i got the exact opposite. Dichera and her mom accused me of stealing her shirt but I didn't steal anything. Her mother was so rude about the situation and wanted to come to my house to search my room. My mother soon got mad by Dichera's moms reaction and told her she isn't allowed anywhere near our house. After hours worth of fighting I got a phone call from Dichera apologizing to me because she found her shirt. Sadly we haven't been friends with her since.
Yeah, all the time since i have two younger brothers. Just recently, me and my brother had to clear the table. I told my brother to put his plate in the sink, and he flipped out, telling me that i'm not his mom. It ended up to the point where he picked up the chair and ran towards me with it, by defending myself i pushed it back. Somehow he ended up with a bruise and told our mom. She didn't listen to what i had to say. I just took the heat and was grounded for a week.
This acualy happened to me a coulpe of times. When i was younger when my brother said a curse word very loud. so my dad earler that dad warned me not to say it agian and i new better not to say it because of what my dad would do. So my dad was in the other room and he was yelling at us and my brother right away said" it was joe". So my dad yelled at a took my tv out my room and made me stay in my room until dinner. I yelled at my brother and kept on telling my dad that it was vic. At the dinner table my bro called me it and he got introuble.
Yes,i have been accused of something. I when mom thought i lost something then i kept telling her i didnt then she said to me Nisha just sorry.I said for what and then she said just letting you know. Then later i knew what she was talking about.But i took the heat,until she knew it really wasnt me.
People are always in this situation. Even when you least expect it. One time that i remember in detail was when i was very wrongly accused of stealing money from house. It was about this time last year when Robbie, Rocap, Darrell, Darnell, and myself were accused of " robbing " a house that past summer. One night the five of us were running around past curfew, like always, and we got hungry and decided to walk to wawa. Since curfew is at 10:00 for all of us and it was about 11:00 we were stopped by three cop cars along with one other person who wasnt not with us. They asked for all of our information and it seemed like they were asking a hundred questions; the main reason they stopped us was because there was a lot of ruckus around our neighborhood and we were kids so they assumed it was us. They then told us to get home as soon as we could so we did what they told. We thought we were off the hook, well did we think wrong. Around this time our freshman, our friend Darnell was called down to the office about that night that happened in the summer but they werent asking about the same thing they were talking about a robbery. He told us all what happened and dont get too worked up about because they would be eventually asking us. And that they did. Over like a week, each one of us were questoined. Unlike Darnell and Darrell, Robbie, Rocap, and myself had detectives come to out houses and question us. It was horrible and we had no idea what they were talking about. Eventually we found out that we were WRONGLY ACCUSED of stealing coins such as quarters and 50 cent peices from a house in mizpah. None of us understood but it was left at that.
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I was falsely accused of many things, however, I can remember one very clearly becuase of how recent this occured. About a couple of weeks ago, I was text messaging my boyfriend, AJ. Later, he texted me back, however, instead of writing what I expected, he wrote that he was mad at me, howeve, he was playing basketball, and didn't want to talk about it then and there. I was perplexed by this because I had no clue as to what he was referring to. All I could do was wait for him to finish playing basketball, so he could finally call me back, and tell me why he was so mad at me. Finally, about two hours later, I recieved a phone call form him. Once, I answered and expected to hear the wonderful voice I love to hear, I was shocked to hear that his voice sounded a bit different. AJ was mad at me. I constantly and repeatedly begged him to tell me the reason as to why he was upset with me. Finally, he came out with it. A few people that he knew, who attended Oakcrest High, with me, told him that I flirt with other boys. This is completely untrue, however, when he told me, I was next to my mom and family, so I couldn't flip out like I wanted to. He said the people who told him were not friends with eachother, so it wasn't like I could say they all made it up together. I was in a jam. I love Aj with all my heart, I am not concerned with any other guys. Unfortunately, these people are telling him lies, and he was in a position where he didn't know who to believe. I tried convincing him to believe me, but he kept wondering why four people would all come up with a similar story. I was confused. I was shocked, and I didn't know what to do. I told him that what I was telling him I was true, and it took a while for him to actually to believe me. That day, I went to see him to spend some time with him. I had not seen him in a few days. When we were together, he finally decided that he would not listen to anything anyone would say about me. I had also agreed that I would not be around, hug, or "flirt" with anyone even though I hadn't in the first place. Finally, I had my trust back. I defeneded myself, and proved I had not been flirting with anyone. Yipee!
yes i have, and it was about me and my sister. my sister thought i stole her money because i was the only one in the house and my sister put the money on her bed and when she came back it was gone. so she came up to me and asked me for it and i said i dont have it than she ran up to my dad and said roodly took my money and my mom said go talk to your mother beacuse he is doing somthing. than she ran up to my mom and said i took her money so i slowly walked to my mom and she said did you take your sisters money and i said no i did not. than every thing went back to normal and the person that had the monbey was my little bother. he was in my sister room sleeping and he accidently kicked it off the bed. than my mom made her say sorry to me and i deny it sike i just hugged her and that was it.
Yes, I have been falsly accused before. For some odd reason, my quad was reported stolen to the police. I had to have my quad taken away from me and go to the police station. The police didnt think I stole it and said that they had to wait and see what happens. I had to face consequences because I lost my quad and had to go to the police station. To this day, they still didnt call me back to tell me about what will happen. I honestly do not know who accused me or why. All i could do was say that i did not steal the quad.
yes,i have been falsely accused of something.I was accused of takeing cookies out the cookie jar and I was on the choping block when I found out they were taken out. she accused me because I love the cookies she made and she came to me and said "why did you eat the cookies" i was shocked that she asked,but it was not me i promase. Come to find out it was my 5 year old brother who took the cookies we found a half of cookie in his room under the bed.I took the to defend my self because if it was me she would have took the cookies away from me for a week and i need her cookies. And sence he took the cookie she took the cookies away from every body i was upset so now i am the cookie jar cop no one gets any until dinner so thats wats happened.
P.S i hop i answered this right mis.Bunje thanks
Of course i've been blamed for something that i didn't do. During the summer my family was going was going on a vacation to florida and we were driving there. My dad made me pack all of the bags into the truck while they carried them out to me. My older sister didn't bring hers outside so i didn't pack it because i didn't know about it. We were already out of New Jersey before we realized and my dad blamed me for not thinking about it. At first i tried to defend myself but all i realized was that it was just adding fuel to his fire, so i let him vent but he was made at me the rest of the week.
YES!!!!!!!
THERE WAS THIS ONE TIME, WHERE MY FAMILY ALL WENT OUT AND I WAS THE ONLY LEFTED IN THE HOUSE. SO I INVITED MY COUSIN OVER HERE TO KEEP ME COMPANY, DOING EXACTLY WHAT MY FAMILY TOLD ME TO DO IF I GOT LONELY. THEY DIDNT KNOW WHAT COUSIN WAS SUPPOSE TO COME OVER, BUT IT WAS A BOY COUSIN. WHEN MY FAMILY GOT BACK THEY PULLED INTO THE DRIVE WAY AND ONE OF THE NEIGHBORS WERE EXPLAINING TO THEM I HAD A BOY THAT SPENT THE NIGHT, AND THEY DID NOT GIVE ME ANYTIME TO EXPLAIN MYSELF AND ACCUSED ME OF HAVING SEX WHILE THEY WERE OUT, KNOWING I DO NOT DO THINGS LIKE THAT. THEN I KEPT TRYING TO EXPLAIN IT WAS JUST MY COUSIN AND THE ONLY REASON I GOT OUT OF IT, IS BECAUSE MY COUSINS MOM, MY AUNT CAME OVER THAT SAME DAY AND EXPLAINED HE CAME OVER. THANK GOD I WAS GOING TO BE IN SO SO SO SO MUCH TROUBLE!
AND LIKE DUMEBI SAID- IF U HAVENT THEN MORE THAN LIKELY YOUR NOT NORMAL IT HAPPENS TO EVERYONE AT LEAST ONCE!
Yes, I have been falsely accused of something before. It was a normal night and I was about fourteen years old and I was walking around town with some friends. It was mischief night and some kids were going around egging houses. The cops saw us walking around town and immediately started blaming us. We kept telling them we were coming home from the parade, but the cop did not believe us. They made us sit at the cop station for an hour until our parents got there. They made us sit there for another half an hour even though our parents were there because they still thought we did. They did not let us leave until another cop brought in a few kids that actually had eggs with them.We were finally cleared of blame and the cop apologized for falsely accusing us.
I am falsely acused all of the time in my science class. For instance, someone else could be making noise or talking and the teacher will always turn around and tell me to stop doing whatever I am doing. Earlier in the year I would just try to tell him it wasn't me and he wouldn't believe me so my fellow classmates have helped in correcting him but now I just sit there and let him yell at me because there really isn't anything I can do to stop him from thinking I am always to blame. I do not think that a teacher should be able to always blame any disruptions on one student, even though I may have disrupted the class a few times but who doesn't?
Yeah--I've been accused too, and it really stinks when you feel that there is nothing you can do. So, my story goes like this: A long time ago, before I became a teacher I used to be a financial consultant and this big company in NYC. There was literally hundreds of people who worked there, and after a while I got this nice promotion that a lot of people were not really happy about because it put me in a position of authority. Because I was not there as long as some other folks had been, they did not think this was fair. So, to make a long story short, there was a specific person there by the name of Tamika who reeeeeally did not like me. Unfortunately for both of us, I became her boss and when that happened, she was determined to do whatever she could to discredit me in any way. So, the easiest way for her to do that was to call me a racist and say that I gave her bad reviews because she was black. This, of course, was not true--I gave her bad reviews because she was a terrible worker and late every day, but that's another story. Anyway, this whole debacle went on for months--to the point where I had to testify in front of an ethics committee and defend my character and my name for days on end. Which I did because it's my name and I'll let no person take away its (or my) integrity. Eventually, it worked itself out and Tamika got fired (not by me) when she transferred to another department. What a hot mess that was!
I'm sure that i have been falsely accused of something because everyone has but none of them were that big of a deal that i had to worry about them. i just took the heat because it didnt really matter to me either way, it wasnt gonna hurt me or help me. For the most part though when i'm accused of something i did it.
Yes! To me it seems like im always being falsely accused of something. For example all the time in my spanish class there are kids that are talking and yelling and making rude comments to the teacher and because i sit right next to a friend of mine and we talk alot my teacher always refers to me as the one making the rude comments. He has no reason to pick on me since im not the one yelling at him. I usually just take the heat because its a teacher but once and a while if he will kick me out of class for having done nothing wrong i will get in to it with him. just being falsely accused of something for the most part sucks. plain and simple
i also was falsely accused of something i had nothing to do with. it was when i was in 7th grade. i was in my math class, and we were taking a big test that day. it was like one of those GEPA pre tests. well what happend was the person behind me (no names) happend to be cheating off my test. i wasnt even awar of it, so it wasnt like i was sitting there letting them. why should they get credit for my work? anyways when we got our tests back they were identical, even the open ended. since i had "behavioral" problems in that class, the teacher jumped to conclusions and said i cheated off the person behind me. like i really sat there & turned around& copied off of every answer they had. that was just a stupid accusation. well after like an hour in the princepals office, the person finally confesed & i didnt get in any trouble. the other person on the other hand, got "severe punishments". lol so i was happy i didnt get in trouble for something i didnt even do. =]
Yes that has happened to me when my sister pushed me down, and i didn't say anything, and she acted like she fell and started to cry. Of course i got in trouble because my parents would of never believed me over my crying little sister. So i didnt even try to save my butt. I got grouned for like a week, but i'm going to get her back sooner or later.
yeah,for stealing this girls glasses in 4th grade but i punch the girl in the eye and told her i didnt do it and she never asked me about it again and about a week later she found out who really did it and said sorry and i never got cauht for punching the girl in the face.
one time i was falsely accused for leaving a very big mess in the kitchen one night. when my mom woke the next morning she came downstairs screaming "who left that big mess in the kitchen" and came up to me. she was told me to go clean it up or i would be in big trouble. this annoyed me because i knew it was not me and that it was my brother. i immediatly told her that it was not me and that none of the mess was my fault. at first she did not believe me because the messes in the house usually are from me. my mom accused me because most of the time it is me who leaves the big messes in the kitchen. i did not take the heat but i did not blame my brother. instead i just pleaded innocence and walked away.
I have been accused of doing things many of times.Once was when my mom had lost her travel magazine.She had knew that I loved to look through it and see all the different places that Interval International were talking about.So one day she comes up to me and starts saying,"Where is my book.You were the last person that I had seen it with!"I told her that I didn't have it, but she didn't believe me.She still kept going on and on saying that I'm always taking her stuff.Basically I just tuned her out, and when she was finished I had said that I had given it back to you 2 days ago.I know that my mom likes to put stuff under her bed, and so I told her that she should look there.And what do you know,that's exactly where the magazine was.My mom had a dumbfounded look on her face and I just smiled and said told you so,and then left.A couple of minutes later she had came to me and apoligized.My mom had said that it was just easier to blame it on me since I'm always misplacing things.
Yes, I was accused of stealing my brothers Gameboy. About two years ago my brother had a clear Gameboy Advance that he played practically everyday. Well one day he couldn't find it (very predictable.), so he told my mom that. Well, my mom accused that I either threw it away or hide the Gameboy. Well after I was done outside playing with my friends, my mom took away my T.V, Playstation, and took the wires away from the computer away from me. I was mad myself seeign why all my things is gone. I asked my mom, she said that I took my brothers Gameboy. I had no idea what she was talking about. So here comes my brother, with his Gameboy saying it was under his matress. Then my mom gave all my things back. Then we all lived happily ever after.
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Omg, This has happened to me so MANY times... Last March, my mom's boyfriend accused me of stealing 'something' & was convinced I did it... When I didn't 'own up', one day in April, he stole all my DVDs (more than 90) off the rack in my room & opened the back door & kicked the screen out to make it seem like someone broke in, & said that 'wow, someone broke in & stole all your dvd's? Sounds like karma...' After investigating I found he had indeed taken them, & he admitted to it by saying 'I thought it would teach you a lesson.' & I responed, 'for something I didn't do!' He returned the with a reluctant apology after much arguing about events I don't wish to mention...
Yes i have been in a this situtation before. One time me and my brother were wrestling and i was of winning. He is a sore loser so he got serious and punch me in the face. And i didn't expect so i was out for the count and he knew when i got up i was going to whip his tail. As i slowley got up he started to run and trip. he landed ackwardly on my dads cane and it broke. But this wasn't a oridinary cane. My dad got this cane from jamacia it was special to him. So my brother started to cry when he seen that cane was broken. He new that not only i was going to get my hit back but my dad was going to whip is tail. So when dad walk in the door from work he ran down stairs and blame it all on me. he said i pushed him into the cane. I felt violated and I cried in my defense. at the end he didnt whip my brother or me but he yelled at us intill are ears were bleeding . he was happy though that we didn't hide it from him. He found out the true and he said we were both wrong.
Hmmm well there was this time last year when i got acused for looking up drugs and stuff on the internet even though the times for it werent even from when i was on. though, i stuck to my story and i didnt get in trouble but i did have to talk with mr. reagan like twice because of it. which is annoying because you get nervous when they just randomly call you down to the office and you have no on idea why. i think they should at least say if its for a good thing or bad thing.
I really can not think of a situation where I have been falsely accused besides one. It was last year and the place was at some kind of Wawa like store. Well the guy stalked me like a hawk and before I walked out of the store he made a huge scene saying I stole something. He pulled me aside and started yelling and already I felt steam because I have this guys dirty hands on me. So I started arguing back with the little man and finally the police came to calm things down. The police notice they had a camera set up and they reviewed the tape. It turned out I didn’t steal anything from store but still no apology from the owner. This made me feel really annoyed because this man would not take responsibility for his actions.
yes, of course..anytime something happens I'm my father's favorite to blame things on. So there was this one time, a couple weeks ago accually, my mom had a bottle of wine which she drank one glass from and put the rest in the fridge. Well, by the following night, three quarters of the bottle was gone and my mom asked everyone who'd done it and left it at "..someone knows what happened and I'm dissappointed in you guys." My father however(who is notoriously 'forgetful') made a bee-line to my bedroom and proceeded to grill me saying he know I'd done it and I was in trouble! So he announced to my mom that he just knew I did it and I was grounded for the remainder of the week. Of course I protested but it didn't help. I really don't know why I'm always the one to blame..because im the oldest maybe? Whatever the resaon, it sucks.
yes i have been accused of something i didnt do.Its nothing big but my brother punched a hole in the wall and my dad thought it was me because my brother denied it and it had to be one of us. Over time though he forgot about it and i never got in touble or anything
I am pretty sure i ahve been accused of many things that i didnt do. It is hard to really come up with one off the top of my head but i can try. Like my parents accuse me of doing a lot of dumb things around the house that my brother proably does. Like if there is trash on the floor i might get accused of doing it or something else like that like tracking dirt on the rug when i didnt relaly do it. I think they accuse me sometimes becuase im older and they just want it to be picked up which i can understand. Sometimes i take the heat and jsut do it becuase i dont want to hear the yelling but most of the time i do a good job defneding myself. Yep.
Yes, I've been blamed many times, but never as bad as when I was in 2nd grade... I was sitting quietly in class taking a spelling test. I noticed that my friend next to me was cheating. I was a little mad, so I let her know with a -stop it right now or you'll get in trouble-kind of look. The teacher came over to me and accused me of cheating. And here I was, an innocent little girl just trying to help my friend. The teacher sent me into the hallway. As I walked out of the room the whole class was just like.. Oooooooh. At this point I knew that I wouldn't rat my friend out and take the heat for it because I knew that my friend had really strict, mean parents. In the hallway, she got in my face, screaming, telling me that I was wrong and a bunch of other degrading comments I was too young to understand. She continued to yell until I cried. What kind of teacher does that? I'm not going to mention her name in case of some slim chance that she'll ever see this. So there I was, backed into a wall balling my eyes out. She walked me to the office and forced me to call my dad and tell him that I cheated! When my dad got to the school, he was on my side. He was yelling at the teacher and telling her that she was wrong. That part was great. She never saw that coming. In the end, I won. My dad took me to McDonalds for being a good friend. As for the teacher, well, she never yelled at me again..
Yeah, it happened many times to me. One time I remember the most was when I was talking with my friend online and she had told me a secret. She said that no one could know the secret, especially one specific friend, so I couldn’t tell anyone. I promised her that I wouldn’t tell. A few days later I got on the computer again and she came to talk with me. She seemed angry and she was asking why I did tell her secret, accusing me of telling that one particular friend. I tried to defend myself telling her that I did not do it, but she didn’t believe me. She said that our friend came to talk with her and said something about her secret, so she thought that I told him. I got really mad and I decided to sign off. Later on that day, my sister got on the computer and my friend started to talk with her. My sister defended me saying that I’m not the kind of person that tells people secrets. The only way my friend believed her was when my sister looked up my archive messages. Then my sister found out that I didn’t tell him anything. After that my friend came to talk with me and apologized.
there was one time recently were i was occused of doing something illegal that i did before however i stoped but i still hang out with the same people i did before i stoped.
yes i have been accused of many things most of them true that i didnt want to admit to but for some reason after i come home from a party my mom always accuses me of drinking hard alcohol my mom doesnt mind if i go out and have a few beers but hard alcohol is out of the question. but still if i come home to drunk she atomatically accuses me of drinking vodka or some other hard acohol. most of the time i am too tired to fight with her but there's always those nights where i can convince her i didnt dis obey her rule. plus im not even a big fan of hard alcohol.
I have been accused for many things that werent true. I cant really seem to remember any good ones right now, except for when i was little, all the kids would play games in the neighborhood, including me, but i had bad asthma so once one round of tag or whatever we were playing was done i would get tired, which made me be "it." However i wouldnt be able to do it becuase i wouldt be able to breath, then every one would just say that i didnt want to be it, and thats why i was sitting out, but it wasnt true.
Hmm. lets just say that im always the one that gets accused for everything. When i was trying to have fun sleeping on her boat and it was really nice. Well our "fun" was about to get us, or me into big trouble. We walked around the casinos that were near by because we stayed on the docks were the boat was at. Me and my friend were walking around just being goffy girls. She decided to take the soap and smire it all over the mirror. Some lady walked in and started yelling at us, and my friend started yelling back at the lady and i was just sitting there wondering what she was doing and then the words came out "she's the one that did it." The lady made me clean the mirror and my friend just sat there watching me clean it all up. So yeah i wasn't to happy about that because my sleep over was ruined.
One time my aunt accused me of taking my uncles $150 glasses. she said that i tooked them. what happened was that it was around christmas time and we were at her house it was time to leave so my clothes were on the table little did i know the glasses were under the clothes and i picked them up wit the clothes. she found out like this there was a hole in the bag and they fell out right in front of her. We were arguing for a really long time until she beleived me.
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umm i think i know how it feels to always be accused amd you can't really do anything about it because either way to a grown up it wrong. i remember this day when we went to the ocean 1 mall in atlantic city just to see what new things they had and how it looked because it just finally open because they were rebulidinhg it. when we went in there we noticed that the ocean one mall were they have all these expensive stuff that we didn't have enough money to pay for. so we just looked around and enagine that we had money (window shopping)lol anyway, we went to this gucci store were my friend had stolen a pare of cute gucci socks and didn;t even worn me so that i could leave. One of the peoplethat worked at the store had cought her.since i was with her i got in trouble for it to. i was also accuse of stealiing to evern thow i wasn
't. i was so mad that day. i havent went back to that store every since.
I have been falsely accused of a few things in my life. None of them were really major though. My sister always accuses me of things but it's never actually me that does it. Once I was accused of cheating on my science test in eigth grade. Two girls and I got the same grade on the test and the exact same questions wrong on the test. The teacher pulled me aside and asked if I cheated and I told her that I didn't. I'm not really to sure if she believed me but I know I didn't and that's all that matters. Till this day I'm not sure if she believed.
umm well let me think because there has been alot of things that i have been accused for that i didn't do sometimes i thought i was a tough iguy and took the blame. But when i was youger i remeber when that my dad never like us drinking the milk why i dont know but any way one day i was so thrist that i jus had to drink the rest of the milk because we ran out of juice and i hate warm water but any way my dad got home you know he fliped out and i didn't want to take blame so i said it was my bother and yea he got in trouble big time lol.
yes i have been accused of somthing and at the end i wasnt found guilty because i didnt do it. i was blamed on stealing from a store but it was not me it, was my friend that had blamed it on me becaus ehe wanted this toy so bad and he ask me to take it but i didnt i just walked away. than the camera had caught him stealing it and he had to pay for it.
At one point in my life i have been fasley accused. I was accused of saying something about someone when i didnt. Now you might think this is stupid but for girls who like to pick a fight over anything with others obiviously get all worked up about it. I dont really care about what happens or what they say but i didnt want to look like the fake one in the situation so thats why i point out the girls that get all worked up over false words. One of my old friends a couple years back said something about my other friend and my other friend found out something was said about her. The girl that was talking about her didnt want her to know it was her so she said it was me. Now my other friend didnt want to talk to me and she no longer liked me as a friend anymore. I had to clear up my name because i wasnt going to loose a good friend over another friend that only talks trash about her other friends. I stay true to my friends and only hang out with those that stay true to me so i chose the best friend. The circumstances in this situation were losing a great friend and a great friendship. And in the end it turned out great because i still had my friend i becAUse i stood up and defended myself.
I'm always blamed for other's wrong doing . I hate it . Alot actually . Seeing as I'm the " older simbling " anything my brother says or does wrong , he doesn't get punished for because he " had to of learned it from somewhere , and you're the older sibling , Allison , it's your fault . " It's funny thouhg , because what ever he has done wrong , I'd never even think of doing, so i don't see how I did this ? But over the years I've just learned to agree with what ever my mom says , not to anger her even more .
I actually have been falsely accused of something and it was terrible. I had this second grade teacher that was so mean and nasty, she must have hated me. She would always be getting mad at me for talking or throwing something that I almost never threw or said. And yes I did try to defend myself but it would never work so eventually I just stopped trying and start walking down to the office. It was either that she really did hate me or I was a ruthless second grader because all I really remember is sitting in the office for at least half of the year. Her name was Mrs. Page and I remember every time she would yell at me her usually pale face would get extremely red and you could see the veins popping out of her neck, I get the goose bumps just thinking about it. My whole second grade year is a year that I will never forget because of Mrs. Page.
When I was younger and my big brother lived with us he accused me of taking my dad's collection of coins and I didn't do it. Of coarse I defended myself but they didn't believe me. There's sometimes where my parents would punish both of us but they always believed him over me under the circumstances that I loved ice cream and i would try to find money anywhere.
Okay i mean this happens to alot of people there will always be those type of people that just have bad luck no matter what. i mean like me sometimes i have good luck but sometimes my luck is just down the drain so back to the topic one time my boy im not going to say no names.but my boy had a bad rap with the cops so he gets himself into a mess then he threw my name in the mix i dont know why me but i got that type of luck. i didnt get busted or nothing because the dumb fool aint no how to spell my name so he just made himself look like a donkeys backside but even if the cops would've came at me no hablo no ingles.but just for a future reference when you are accused of something just make sure you dont slip up and say some thing stupid because if your arm doesn't get red when you get smacked the cops will screw you over.
Yes i have, their was this one insadent at school last year my freshman year. I was just about three fourths into the year. And in gym i had to go outside to run for class, on my way i found a camera next to the ground and no one was near,asking for it,nor did it have a name on it, so i decided to pick it up instead of leaving it their and let it go to waste. Then out of nowere my gym teacher gets a message from a gils saying she cant find her camera and she left it far away form her so it doesnt brake or anything. So she new it was one of us so she started to scream at us because of that. So i paniked, the cool thing was that i told my friend to hold it in his bookback since he didnt get changed so he thought likeme and put it in a open space and left it their so no one would get in trouble nor get blamed. But apperently affter that, three days later i found out that after what happened my friend started telling everyone what happened and who did it and i guess to get credit or someting he told everyone. And someone of the everyone snitched. long story short, i got sent to the office with my friend, threatened to go to jial because the vice principal is racest or something and though i stold it even do i found it, but she didnt press charges and no one got in trouble.
I think it was back in 5th grade when our bus driver was ms lynn and we just got in our brand new bus for the first time of the first day of school. We got on the bus and then went to school. After the day was over and we were all going home and then out of no where miss lynn stopped me and showed me some graffiti on the seat i was sitting at. Even know i dident do it i still got in trouble and got suspended from the bus for about a week.
Once when I was younger, about 5, I was falsely accused of something. My two twin cousins had this little piano and one of the keys was missing. When my grandma came in and saw it, she assumed that I had done it. I cried and told her that I didn't, but she did not believe me until my aunt came home and said that it was broken before I even got there. My feelings were hurt so I cried even more ( plus I was a crybaby and a spoiled brat ). My grandma didn't want me to tell my dad what happened because she knew he would be mad so she tried to shut me up with some oreos and 2 dollars. Sad to say it worked.
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